June 7th 2024.
Hi there! My name is Rohit* and I'm a 21-year-old bisexual student. I'm excited to share with you all a glimpse into my sex life with my partner, who happens to be a transgender man. We've been together for a while now and our relationship is built on open communication, especially when it comes to our intimate moments.
We were approached for this series called "How I Do It," where we get to give you all a seven-day sneak peek into our sex life. So, let's dive right in!
My partner and I have sex about three to four times a week. While it's enjoyable, I'll admit that I wouldn't mind if it was a little more on the kinky side. However, our journey together has been shaped by my partner's transition from being assigned female at birth to his current identity as a man. This has had a profound impact on our relationship and how we approach intimacy.
Navigating our sex life requires a delicate balance of understanding and communication. My partner's gender dysphoria plays a significant role in our choices in the bedroom. We always prioritize his comfort and well-being above all else.
We met on Tinder back in May 2023 and officially started dating in October after my partner's top surgery. I didn't know he was transgender until two weeks after we matched, but it didn't bother me at all. Being bisexual, I am attracted to all types of genitalia, so it wasn't an issue for me.
Since then, we've become what I like to call "very queer." We love going to gay bars, watching drag race, and bonding over queer culture. Some may label our relationship as "straight" because my partner was assigned female at birth, but for us, it's undeniably queer and liberating. As someone who used to hide my queerness and conform to heteronormative ideals, being in this relationship has been incredibly empowering for me.
But let's get back to the juicy details of our sex life. Shall we?
It wasn't easy for me to figure out my bisexual journey. I always felt like I didn't fit in anywhere – too straight to be gay, yet too gay to be straight. Despite these challenges, my partner and I are incredibly happy together, and our sex life is blossoming.
Ever since he started testosterone hormone therapy, his libido has been through the roof, adding a new level of excitement and exploration to our encounters. We try to avoid penetrative acts unless it's a special occasion because it can trigger my partner's dysphoria. So, we focus on other forms of intimacy that bring us closer without causing any distress.
In our bedroom, I often take on a more submissive role, not out of obligation, but because it empowers and fulfills my partner. It allows him to embrace his masculinity fully.
Now, let me give you a rundown of how this week has been for us.
Tuesday was a special day for us as we celebrated my partner's university graduation with a getaway to a cozy Airbnb lodge. We spent the day walking around the beautiful countryside and then relaxed in the hot tub with some pina coladas. In the evening, we turned our attention to each other, and my partner took on the role of a service top, focusing on my pleasure. It was a nice change of pace, and I thoroughly enjoyed being the center of attention.
The next day, we woke up early to head back home, and after a long day of traveling, we were both exhausted. We collapsed into bed, too tired for anything other than sleep.
On Thursday, we were both feeling incredibly horny, and we wasted no time satisfying our desires with a quick blowjob. It wasn't my proudest moment as I came in about five minutes, but it did the trick.
Friday was a busy day for us, and we didn't get a chance to have sex. But on Saturday, we made up for it with a steamy make-out session and some mutual masturbation.
Sunday was a lazy day, and we spent most of it cuddling and watching our favorite TV shows. But we did manage to sneak in a sensual massage session, which ended with a happy ending for both of us.
Monday was our last day of this week's diary, and we ended it with a bang (pun intended). We tried out some new positions and toys that my partner had been wanting to experiment with, and it was an incredible experience for both of us.
And just like that, a week in our sex life has flown by. I hope you enjoyed this sneak peek into our intimate moments. If you're interested in more juicy stories and tips for spicing things up in the bedroom, don't forget to sign up for The Hook-Up, Metro's sex and dating newsletter. We can't wait to have you join us!
I am a bisexual person in a relationship with a transgender man, and our sex life is all about communication. Welcome to "How I Do It," where we give you a glimpse into the sex life of a stranger for seven days. This week, we hear from Rohit*, a 21-year-old bisexual student who is in a relationship with a transgender man.
Rohit and his boyfriend, who is 23 years old, have sex about three to four times a week. While they both enjoy their intimate moments, Rohit admits that he wouldn't mind exploring some kinkier activities. However, their sex life is deeply influenced by his partner's journey of transitioning from being assigned female at birth to becoming a man through medical and hormonal means over the past year. This has profoundly shaped their relationship and their approach to intimacy.
According to Rohit, navigating their sex life requires a delicate balance of understanding and communication. His partner's gender dysphoria plays a significant role in their choices in the bedroom, as they prioritize his comfort and well-being above all else. The couple met on Tinder in May 2023, and after two weeks of matching, they officially started dating in October, following his partner's top surgery.
Rohit recalls that his partner was initially hesitant to disclose his transgender identity because Rohit is cisgender. However, Rohit reassured him that he didn't mind and that their sexual compatibility wouldn't be a problem as he is attracted to all types of genitalia. As a couple, they now frequent gay bars, watch drag shows, and bond over queer culture, embracing their queerness together.
Despite some people labeling their relationship as "straight" due to his partner being assigned female at birth, Rohit emphasizes that their relationship is undeniably queer and incredibly empowering for him. He spent a significant amount of time hiding his own queerness and conforming to heteronormative ideals, and being with his partner has allowed him to be his true self.
Rohit shares that it wasn't easy for him to embrace his bisexual identity, as he often felt like he didn't fit in anywhere. But despite the challenges, he and his partner are incredibly happy together, and their sex life has only gotten better since his partner started testosterone therapy, which has increased his libido.
Rohit explains that they tend to avoid penetrative acts unless it's a special occasion, as it can trigger dysphoria for his partner. Instead, they prioritize alternative forms of intimacy that bring them closer without causing any distress. Rohit also mentions that he takes on a submissive role during sex, not out of obligation, but because it empowers his partner and allows him to fully embrace his masculinity.
Without further ado, here's how Rohit's week went:
Tuesday:
To celebrate his partner's university graduation, they go on a getaway to a cozy Airbnb lodge. After a day of walking in the beautiful countryside, they relax in the hot tub with some pina coladas. Later in the evening, Rohit's partner takes charge of pleasing him as a service top, while Rohit embraces his role as a pillow princess, enjoying the pleasure of receiving. They consider the idea of anal penetration, but decide against it due to the size difference between their penises.
Wednesday:
After a tiring journey back home, they collapse into bed and fall asleep without having sex.
Thursday:
Both of them wake up feeling incredibly horny and satisfy their desires with a quick blowjob. Even though Rohit comes in just five minutes, it does the trick.
Sign up to The Hook-Up, Metro's sex and dating newsletter, to receive juicy stories like this and tips on how to spice things up in the bedroom. Rohit concludes by saying that his journey of embracing his bisexual identity hasn't been easy, but being with his transgender partner has been a liberating experience for him.
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