July 19th 2024.
In this week's edition of How I Do It, we're sharing the intimate details of Melissa's sex life. Melissa is a 47-year-old dominatrix from Kent who has been in the sex industry for 28 years. She's straight, but has also performed in both heterosexual and lesbian porn. According to Melissa, her love for sex has only grown stronger with age.
When she's making porn, Melissa often gets to explore her kinks, such as bondage, breath play, and impact play, with women. Her husband, an actor whom she met 11 years ago while auditioning for a play, has been supportive of her career from the very beginning. "It's interesting because most men would be thrilled to date a porn star, but he didn't really care," Melissa says.
Now, after more than a decade together, Melissa's husband even gets involved in her sex work. He's even allowed clients to listen in on their sexual encounters. The only issue her husband has with her work is when she gets too emotionally involved with clients. "He really dislikes it when he feels like I'm sharing too much of my intimate thoughts with a client and neglecting him," Melissa explains. "It's only happened a few times, but I've promised to keep it more professional in the future."
Now, let's take a look at how Melissa's week went.
Monday
I had a busy day today. I went to a photographer's house to get some pictures taken for my OnlyFans page. Another model joined me, and we were commissioned to make a couple of custom films. One of my regular clients likes to see women spanking each other with vintage hairbrushes, so we took turns doing just that. He prefers a more sensual spanking rather than anything aggressive.
After the shoot, my next client wanted to see me play a dominant role in a scene with another woman. She was 44 and had a peachy bottom. During the scene, I was focused on camera angles and remembering my lines, but once I got home, I reached for my vibrator.
Tuesday
Today, a client flew all the way from California to serve me for a week. He's rented a flat in Covent Garden, and as soon as we met, I locked him in chastity. He had promised to bring me coffee in bed, iron my outfits, polish my shoes, and even escort me to the theatre. I was being paid £1500 for this arrangement.
We settled into our new living quarters, and I let him help me with my suspenders while I stood in my underwear scolding him. Later that evening, my husband joined us, and we went to the Savoy for martinis. I've never had a martini or been to the Savoy before, but I've learned to play the part of a middle-class woman. However, in reality, I'm just a common girl who enjoys a pint of ale at the local pub. Despite my initial anxiety, the staff were lovely, and I discovered that martinis are just big glasses of gin.
After a few drinks, we went back to our apartment, and my husband and I had loud and sweaty sex, knowing that the butler could hear us from his quarters. He enjoyed the idea of us having fun while he couldn't. My husband has always said that the work we do together doesn't feel like sex to him; it's more like theatre. And that's why it works for us. After we finished, I emerged naked to ask the butler to wash my sweaty underwear for the next day.
Wednesday
My husband and I had sex again this morning, but this time we didn't climax. We promised to save it for later. At my husband's request, I left a hickey on his nipple and gave him six quick strokes of the cane before he had to leave.
My marriage has been unconventional from the start, as my husband and I met while I was auditioning for a play 11 years ago. I've been a dominatrix for 28 years and have explored both heterosexual and lesbian porn during my career in the sex industry. As I've gotten older, my desire for sex has only grown stronger and more frequent. In fact, I find that making porn allows me to indulge in my kinks, such as bondage, breath play, and impact play, with women on a regular basis.
My husband has always been indifferent to my work, which is quite unusual for men who are usually thrilled to discover they're dating a porn star. But my husband didn't seem to care at all. It was a fascinating dynamic that intrigued me. Over the years, he has become even more involved in my sex work, sometimes allowing clients to listen in on our sessions.
The only issue he has ever had with my work is when he feels I am getting too emotionally involved with a client. He doesn't mind the physical aspect, but he doesn't like when I share intimate thoughts and feelings with someone else. This has only happened a few times, and I have promised to maintain a more professional relationship with my clients.
Now, let me take you through my week and give you a glimpse into my sex life, which is definitely NSFW.
Monday started with a photo shoot for my OnlyFans. I wore a corset, heels, and stockings, and another model joined me later to film some custom videos for a regular client. He has a specific fetish for vintage hairbrushes and loves to see women spanking each other sensually. I find that spanking is a form of mindfulness, as it requires all of my attention and I can't worry about anything else while it's happening.
My next client wanted to see me play a strict dominatrix, punishing my friend who acted as a cheeky girl in need of discipline. It was fun to play this role, but afterwards, I was ready for some real pleasure. I reached for my vibrator as soon as I got home.
Tuesday was quite exciting as a client flew in from California to serve me as a butler for a week. He rented a flat in Covent Garden and paid me £1500 for my services. I locked him in chastity as soon as we met and let him pamper me, iron my outfits, and escort me to the theatre. My husband even joined us for martinis at the Savoy, where I felt a bit out of place but enjoyed the experience nonetheless.
Back at the apartment, my husband and I had passionate and noisy sex while the butler listened from his quarters. He enjoyed the idea of us having fun while he couldn't. My husband has always seen my work as more of a theatrical performance rather than actual sex, and that's why it works for us. After we finished, I asked the butler to wash my sweaty underwear for the next day.
On Wednesday, my husband and I started having sex in the morning, but we didn't reach climax. However, we promised to save it for later and my husband asked me to leave a hickey on his nipple. He also wanted me to cane him six times before he had to leave. Our marriage may not be conventional, but it works for us and keeps things interesting.
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