My sister-in-law seemed to like me, but now she's imitating my wedding.

Dear Lucy,

It's amazing how far you and your sister-in-law's relationship has come, especially after the rocky start you had. Being chosen as her maid of honour must have been such a special moment for you, but now you're feeling a bit uneasy about the wedding planning process.

Weddings can be such stressful events, and it's totally understandable that you're feeling conflicted about your sister-in-law potentially copying aspects of your own wedding. After all, it's a deeply personal and emotional celebration of love and commitment.

Your past issues with her also make it difficult to fully trust her intentions. However, it's important to approach the situation with an open mind and heart. It's possible that she's not intentionally copying your wedding, but rather admiring and seeking inspiration from it.

Before jumping to conclusions, have a conversation with her about it. Ask her how she chose her wedding suppliers and listen to her reasoning. It may turn out that she genuinely liked the services they provided at your wedding.

Even if it does turn out that she's copying some aspects of your wedding, try not to take it personally. Remember, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Your wedding was such a beautiful and memorable event that it's natural for her to want to recreate some of that magic for her own special day.

It's also important to keep in mind that no two weddings are ever the same. Each one is unique and special because of the people involved. Your wedding will always hold a special place in your heart because of the love and memories shared with your husband.

Ultimately, your relationship with your sister-in-law is more important than holding onto the details of your wedding. If letting her borrow some of your ideas doesn't diminish your joy, then it's worth letting go of any resentment or hurt feelings.

Remember, a wedding is just one day, but your relationship with your sister-in-law will last a lifetime. Cherish the bond you have built and focus on creating new memories together.

Best wishes,
Alison

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