My elder son Taylor shouted out 'Mum, would you marry Harry's dad so me and Harry can be siblings?' while on the school run. I was embarrassed and wanted the ground to open up! It was July 2017 and I had just been single for a month; I was not searching for a new relationship, let alone with my son's best friend's dad.
I had to explain to Taylor that 'it doesn't function like that' and that I had no idea who Harry's dad was. (Image Source: https://metro.co.uk) I then put it to the back of my mind until I went out with friends to a wine bar and one of them mentioned knowing Harry's dad. She introduced us and I was pleasantly surprised that he was actually attractive!
We had a chat and then he asked me out, proposing the idea of trying out the kids' theory. I was intrigued and said 'why not?'. We went out on a date to celebrate Harry's birthday and it felt like we were a family.
Afterwards, he asked me out for dinner and drinks, but I was still a bit hesitant as I had been hurt in my last relationship. (Image Source: https://metro.co.uk) My eldest son Taylor asked me loudly while on the school run if I could marry Harry's dad so they could be brothers. I was mortified, as I was not looking for a new relationship and certainly not one with my son's best friend's dad.
I explained to him that it doesn't quite work like that and I had no idea who Harry's dad was. However, when I went out with some friends and mentioned it to one of them, she said she knew him and offered to introduce us. We ended up going on a date with our kids and afterwards had dinner and drinks at the local pub.
I was still a bit cautious, as I didn't want to rush into another relationship after the hurt of my last one. (Image Source: https://metro.co.uk)