June 16th 2024.
Father's Day is a special occasion for many, but for Nathan Chan, it holds even more significance. As a proud single dad of three, he has spent a whopping £285,000 to fulfill his dream of having a family. Nathan's journey to parenthood hasn't been an easy one, but it has been worth every obstacle he faced along the way.
Nathan, now 39 years old, first made the decision to become a single dad back in 2010. Despite facing negativity and rejection from adoption and foster agencies, he remained determined to make his dream a reality. "For years, I focused on my career and traveling, waiting for the 'right person' to come into my life so we could be parents together," Nathan shared. "But deep down, I knew that being a father was what I wanted more than anything."
However, achieving his dream came at a high cost. With the help of egg donation and surrogates, Nathan was able to welcome his two daughters and one son into the world. He spent over a decade battling multiple rejections and setbacks, including failed embryo transfers and miscarriages. But for Nathan, the joy of becoming a father far outweighed the financial burden. "Having children is the best decision I ever made – I'm a very proud single dad by choice," he said with a smile.
Nathan's children, Nanette, Newton, and Neptune Nina, were all born through the help of different surrogates. His eldest daughter Nanette, now six years old, was born after six surrogates, three egg donors, and ten embryo transfers. His son Newton just turned three in May, and his youngest daughter Neptune Nina will be three in August. The three children, born just months apart, are often mistaken for twins.
Despite the challenges he faced, Nathan has no regrets. He has traveled the world with his brood, showing them his favorite places and things. It hasn't been easy, but he couldn't imagine not sharing these experiences with his little family. "I've had to become more organized than ever, but I wouldn't change a thing," Nathan shared.
As a single dad, Nathan often faces stereotypes and misconceptions about his role as a father. "People will come up to me and say: 'Oh, is it Dad's weekend to babysit?'" he explained. "But that is honestly so offensive to any father, in a relationship or not. We're not babysitters – we're parents." Nathan takes every opportunity to educate others and break down these stereotypes.
Despite being a single dad, Nathan is open to the possibility of meeting someone special. "I am still very single, but I would welcome someone into our lives if they fit our very unique puzzle," he shared. But for now, his children are his top priority, and he couldn't be happier. "I have a full house and a full heart, and I am completely outnumbered, but I am beyond blessed," Nathan said with a smile.
On Father's Day, Nathan takes the time to reflect on his journey and show his gratitude to the women who helped him become a father. "My children are here because of their generosity and love, and I have so much gratitude to the women who have helped me," he shared. Nathan is also the founder and managing director of Proud Fertility, a surrogacy and egg donation consultancy in Canada. Through sharing his story, he hopes to inspire other single men who want to become fathers to explore all their options.
Nathan's story is a testament to the power of determination and love. It took him over a decade to complete his family, but when he looks at his children, he knows it was all worth it. As for the future, Nathan remains open to whatever life may bring, but for now, he is content and grateful for the beautiful family he has created. "I have no regrets – to me, becoming a father is priceless," he said with a smile.
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