November 3rd 2023.
Lily and her husband had a baby six months ago and it has been a long and winding road to get to where they are today.
Lily, who is 38 and identifies as bisexual, has been married to a man for some time now and they have created a blended and blessed family together. She has an older son from a previous relationship and recently had a baby with her husband.
Lily has had to work through a lot of shame and guilt leftover from abuse she experienced as a teenager in order to make their relationship with sex ‘good, now’. Though her husband isn’t as kinky as she would like, Lily is ‘totally comfortable’ with him.
‘He’s a hot nerd ’ she adds, ‘and he loves me completely as I am. Since having my six-month-old, I’ve put on some weight and, though I’ve been trying desperately to lose it, he still looks at me like I’m the sexiest woman in the world.’
This week, let’s take a look into their sex life. Thursday was a full-on day for Lily. She had a job interview in the morning, followed by a meeting and then picking up her five-year-old son from school. After parents’ evening, Lily and her husband had a brief debrief. Her husband was called back into work to deal with a crisis but Lily thanked him for always showing up for her son.
Friday was a bit calmer. Lily had some work on and her husband took her son to school. She managed to get through her to-do list before picking up her baby from nursery. They finished the final season of Sex Education and went to bed. Lily’s husband gave her ‘the eyebrow’ and she decided to go on top, something she hadn’t done in sixteen months.
Saturday was spent packing and driving to the Cotswolds to visit her husband’s family. That evening, Lily went to the theatre with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, along with her husband’s aunt and cousin.
Sunday was a day of reflection for Lily. She talked through her worries with her husband that his family secretly regrets the day he met her. He listened calmly and empathically and she was grateful for that. She loves his family, she just feels guilty for the times when things haven’t been perfect between them.
Lily and her husband welcomed their baby into the world six months ago. The couple had already been together for a few years and have been through a lot of therapy to tackle the guilt and shame of past abuse. Although they would love for their husband to be a bit more kinky, they feel completely comfortable with him. As Lily puts it, he's a hot nerd and he loves her completely, regardless of her weight gain since having the baby.
Lily and her husband are a blended family, co-parenting her five-year-old from a previous relationship with his dad and step-mum. As part of this week's 'How I Do It' series, we'll get an insight into their sex life.
Thursday was a hectic day for Lily. She had a job interview, meetings, and then had to pick up her son from school and go to parents' evening. Her husband was there and punctual, but her son's dad and step-mum weren't, which worried Lily. However, her husband showed up for her son and she appreciated that. She told him how much she values it, but he had to go back to work in the evening.
Friday was another busy day of work for Lily, but she and her husband divided and conquered, with him taking her son to school and her taking the baby to nursery. Later on, he had to go back to work and Granny put the kids to bed.
In the evening, they finished the final season of Sex Education before getting into bed. Her husband gave her 'the eyebrow' which she couldn't resist and, feeling in a great mood, she even went on top - something she hadn't done since before she was pregnant.
On Saturday, they packed up and drove to the Cotswolds to visit Lily's husband's family. She was a bit worried about fitting into an outfit but managed to find a ruffled skirt with an elasticated waist that still fit. In the evening, she went to the theatre with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law.
On Sunday, Lily was a little paranoid about whether her husband's family actually liked her. She talked through her worries with her husband, who was calm and supportive. She loves his family, but sometimes feels guilty for the arguments they've had in the past.
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