I was forcibly hospitalized for 4 years.

Ever since I was diagnosed with a mild learning disability and atypical autism, I had been living at home with my mom and attending special needs schools. However, after 12 years of struggling with my mental health and constantly being in and out of hospitals and a treatment unit, I was finally able to move into my own home.

I remember the excitement I felt as I walked through the front door and saw all the little details that I had handpicked. From the perfect living room curtains to the soft bedding and the beautiful pink kitchen appliances, I felt like everything was just perfect. This was finally my own space.

But it was not an easy journey to get here. My struggles with my mental health had led to me being diagnosed with personality disorders in my late teens. I often found myself unable to control my behavior and it sometimes got so bad that the police had to be called. I still remember the fear I felt when I was taken away from my home and put in a cell.

Eventually, I was moved into a long-stay hospital where I was detained under the Mental Health Act. This was a shock to both me and my mom, who was not even informed until it had all been decided. I was put on a mix of sedative medications and had 24-hour support from a nursing team. It was a difficult time, but I knew I needed specialist support.

After three years, I had made enough progress to be considered for moving out of the hospital. It was frustrating at times, but finally, in 2017, I was put on a Section 17a which meant I could live in the community as long as I agreed to certain conditions. With the help of Aspire, a Community Benefit Society, I was able to plan for my move and regain my independence.

It was a slow process, but eventually, I got my own space. I was involved in every step, from choosing my new home to picking out the furniture and decor. I even became part of a drama group and made friends, including my now fiancé, Danny. Life was finally starting to look up for me.

Now, I live with just 2-to-1 support and have control over my own life. I attend a day service, play rugby, and go to college. I am even a winner at the 2024 Dimensions Leaders' List Awards for my journey from institutions to independence. Every year, I host a family party to celebrate the anniversary of moving into my house.

My experience in a specialized hospital was not a good one, and I never want to go back there. Unfortunately, there are still around 2,000 people in similar situations who could also benefit from living in their own homes with support. Everyone deserves a chance to live a better life.

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