December 26th 2023.
I was mind-blown. On Christmas day, I opened my presents from my boyfriend of three months, a 24 year old, and was left perplexed. I had a feeling I wouldn't like the presents he got me, and I was right. He had bought me a giant, life-size cutout of an anime character and a makeup palette.
I was completely taken aback. I had never hinted at this type of gift or even mentioned the character. The makeup palette was alright, but I rarely wear makeup. It felt like he assumed I would enjoy this stuff when I don't.
It turns out the anime cut out was inspired by a poster belonging to my ex. I had bought it for him, and it was left with me. I didn't know what to say to my boyfriend, so I texted my friend for advice - but he read the message. Now he's giving me the silent treatment.
It's important to remember that if you're in a new relationship, gift mishaps are to be expected. If you don't like a present, it's ok to tell them, as long as you do it in a respectful way. Let them know what you want in the future, and don't be afraid to be honest. Lead by example when you give them something, and be clear and direct when receiving something.
It's understandable to feel disappointed, but it's important to remember that expectations should be lowered in the early stages of a relationship. Be grateful for the thought and effort, and communicate your feelings in a respectful way.
It's a tricky situation, and it's important to be honest and understanding.
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