January 2nd 2025.
Do you ever wonder if the person you are with is truly the one for you? It's a question that has crossed the minds of many people who are in love. We all dream of finding our perfect match and spending the rest of our lives with them. But how do we know if our love is strong enough to stand the test of time? Well, according to licensed professional counsellor Jeff, also known as Therapy Jeff on TikTok, there are 10 questions you should be able to answer with a resounding "yes" to determine if you and your partner are truly compatible.
These questions were featured in Jeff's most popular video of 2024 and are designed to see if your relationship has what it takes to last until death do you part. They also provide an opportunity for introspection, allowing you to evaluate whether all of your needs are being met. However, you don't need to score a perfect 10 out of 10 to have a lasting relationship. Jeff believes that as long as you can answer "yes" to seven or more of these questions, your relationship is on the right track. So, let's take a look at Jeff's make-or-break quiz.
One of the questions that Jeff encourages you to consider is what annoys you the most about your partner. And if that habit never changes, would you still want to be with them forever? It's important to think about whether you can tolerate their quirks and idiosyncrasies for the next 50 years. Whether it's something as small as chewing with their mouth open or as big as never cleaning the house, it's something you'll have to live with for the rest of your life.
Another important factor to consider is how you feel when you're with your partner. Do they bring out the best version of yourself or do they make you someone you're not happy with? This is a crucial aspect to think about, as you'll have to live with this person for the rest of your life. Does this relationship challenge you to grow and evolve in ways that you enjoy? It's important to have a partner who encourages and supports your personal growth and development. Whether it's trying new things or becoming more confident, their influence should have a positive impact on your life.
But what if you weren't in a romantic relationship with this person? Could you see yourself being really good friends with them? While it's not necessary to be friends with someone before dating them, this question helps you determine if your love is genuine or if you're just infatuated. @therapyjeff
The most popular TherapyJeff video of 2024. #therapy #mentalhealth #dating #relationshiptips #datingadvice
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The next important aspect to consider is your sex life. Are you able to communicate openly and honestly about your wants and needs in the bedroom? A fulfilling sex life is a crucial foundation for a successful relationship, and building intimacy can bring you even closer together.
Trust and respect are essential components of a strong relationship. If you don't have these qualities in your relationship, it's unlikely to last. Another vital factor is whether your dreams and long-term goals are supported by your partner. It's important to have a partner who encourages and helps you achieve your goals, rather than someone who holds you back.
Emotional support is also critical in a relationship. Can you both rely on each other for emotional support during life's ups and downs? If not, do you have a support system in place elsewhere? It's also essential to consider if your values and core beliefs align with your partner's. While it's normal to have different opinions, make sure you don't clash on any beliefs that you consider deal-breakers.
Finally, ask yourself if your relationship is an overall net positive in your life. If you see your relationship as a drain or a negative aspect, it's unlikely to last. So, answer these questions carefully and take time to think about your responses.
In the comments section of Jeff's video, many people were eager to share their results. Some scored well, while others didn't. But the important thing is to take time to reflect on these questions and see where your relationship stands. So, what did you score out of 10? Let us know in the comments below. And if you have a story to share, get in touch with us by emailing [email].
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