September 24th 2023.
We often hear people talk about how someone is a red flag or toxic for us. But, we rarely think of ourselves as a red flag or toxic for someone else. We are all imperfect and have qualities that could be considered red flags. That's why it's so important to do regular self-checks and make sure you're being your best self. Here are some signs that you might be a red flag:
1. You lack empathy:
No one looks good when they don't show empathy. It's an important part of being human, and it's vital to be able to understand and connect with the suffering of others instead of just talking about yourself all the time.
2. You're not willing to work on yourself:
You need to have a good relationship with yourself first before you can have a good relationship with anyone else. If you're aware of your flaws but don't do anything to improve them, it shows that you're not ready for a relationship.
3. You're too self-centred:
It's okay to be a little bit selfish, but if your selfishness is causing harm to others, it's a sign that you should take a step back and reassess the situation. People who are too self-centred struggle to love others and give to relationships.
4. You can't handle rejection:
Rejections are a part of life, and you need to learn how to deal with them in a productive way. If you act like a child when you don't get your way, it's a sign that you have a toxic personality trait.
5. You only do the bare minimum:
Relationships need effort from both sides in order to be successful. If you only do the bare minimum while expecting someone else to take on the majority of the work, it's a sign that you're not ready for a relationship.
6. You're not a good listener:
It takes skill to be a good listener, and if you don't take the time to truly listen to what someone is saying, it's a sign that you're a red flag. Pay attention to what the other person is saying and listen for their complaints and problems.
7. You base your value on other relationships:
It's not healthy to base your worth on what other people think of you. It's your job to find and appreciate your self-worth, and it's not up to another person to make you feel complete. You need to discover who you are and embrace that person.
It's important to be aware of these signs if you want to be the best version of yourself. Everyone has flaws, but if you can identify the things that make you a red flag and work on improving them, you will be better equipped to handle relationships.
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