What is the current status of the TikTok shoe theory?

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Gifting is one of the five love languages, and for those of us that express and receive love in this manner, it can be quite enjoyable. Who does not appreciate a surprise present? Whether it be a bouquet of flowers or a romantic getaway. However, TikTok is now cautioning couples that there is one gift you ought never to give your partner – or face the consequences.

The ‘shoe theory’ states that gifting your other half with a pair of shoes will eventually end your relationship. Yes, it appears to be unbelievable, but TikTok is urging against giving your beloved a shoe box in the near future, regardless of whether it is a pair of flip-flops or designer shoes.

The trend has recently gained traction, with many TikTokers recounting their own experiences. Creator Brooke remembered how her husband got her shoes the week before he left her, stating: ‘I still have not worn them.’

So, where did the shoe theory come from? According to user Angela Chaan, the theory has its origins in Chinese culture and has been passed down through the generations. Basically, she claims, the theory holds that ‘if you present someone with a pair of shoes, they will walk away from you’. The Mandarin word for shoes is similar to the expression for bad luck or evil.



Gift-giving is a way to express love for many, and it can be quite enjoyable. However, TikTok has warned couples against giving a certain type of present - shoes - as it might lead to the end of the relationship. This is known as the 'shoe theory'. People have shared their stories of how their partner purchased them shoes and then soon after the relationship ended. It is believed that this superstition originates in Chinese culture and is due to the similar pronunciation of the word for shoes and the word for bad luck or evil. Another user has suggested that there are other gifting superstitions from different cultures which should also be kept in mind.

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