July 13th 2023.
It's completely understandable to be nervous about trying something new, especially when it comes to sex. Anal sex, in particular, is a subject that is still considered taboo and shrouded in stigma. But it's becoming more and more popular, especially among heterosexual couples.
If you're considering giving it a try, it's important to know the risks and how to avoid them. The main risk is pain and tearing, since the anus doesn't self lubricate the way a vagina does. But this risk can be easily mitigated.
Gigi Engle, an ACS certified sexologist and 3Fun sex and relationships expert, suggests that you take your time, use a lot of lube, and start off with smaller toys. You should also never attempt anal sex right away – the anus is a nerve-rich area, and the pleasure from anal mostly comes from the stimulation of these nerves. This means that you don't need to penetrate to get pleasure. Start off slowly with anal play and then move on from there.
If anal sex ever becomes painful, it's important to stop immediately and check in. "The bottom is always in control and should feel comfortable stopping the play at any time," Gigi says. And of course, always use a condom!
To make sure anal sex is as enjoyable as possible, it's important to communicate with your partner, train your anus using an anal dilator kit, and douche if you want to. If you follow these tips, you'll be more than ready to experiment!
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