July 1st 2024.
When we're getting intimate with our partner, it can be hard to find the right words to enhance the experience. We don't want to come on too strong or make our partner uncomfortable. That's why sex educator and shop owner AJ Papadatos recently shared some helpful phrases on TikTok for his followers, particularly the male ones.
His suggestions included phrases like "You're taking it so well," "That feels good, doesn't it?" and "You're mine." The comments were full of positive reactions, with one person saying they would be "undone" if their partner said "I know baby, I know." It seems like these phrases are perfect for those who have a "princess complex" or a "praise kink."
For those who aren't familiar, a "princess complex" is when someone enjoys letting their partner take control, both in and out of the bedroom. This can take on a BDSM style relationship, with the "princess" playing different roles like a "brat" or a "submissive." And as long as both parties are consenting, it can lead to amazing sex.
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AJ's suggestions tap into the "princess complex" specifically, using phrases like "princess" or "how's that feel princess?" But it's important to note that these male-dominant versions of dirty talk may not be everyone's cup of tea. As AJ suggests, it's crucial to communicate with your partner and find out if they have a "degrading kink" or a "praise kink." However, not all women fit into these categories, and it's essential to have an open and honest conversation before incorporating dirty talk in the bedroom.
Dr. Melissa Cook, a relationships expert and psychologist, suggests having a chat with your partner before trying out dirty talk. She advises approaching the subject with an open mind and making sure your partner doesn't feel pressured. You could start by saying something like, "I've been thinking about ways to spice things up. How do you feel about incorporating some playful or sexy talk during our intimate time?" Melissa also suggests asking your partner specifically which words or phrases they enjoy and which ones turn them off. This way, you can ensure that you don't kill the mood or upset your partner.
AJ's suggestions on TikTok may work for some couples, especially those interested in exploring dominant dirty talk. This involves using assertive and explicit language to create a power dynamic, where one partner takes on a dominant role and the other a submissive one. However, it's essential to remember that this type of dirty talk may not be everyone's cup of tea and can even be harmful if not consensual.
Melissa also recommends using safe words to regulate dirty talk in bed and regularly checking in with your partner before and after sex. It's also essential to be prepared if your partner doesn't enjoy dirty talk at all. It's normal for some people to feel uncomfortable or distracted by explicit language or discussing sexual acts in detail. And it's crucial to respect your partner's boundaries and not pressure them into anything they're not comfortable with.
Sex is a very personal and intimate experience, and it's essential to communicate with your partner and make sure you're both on the same page. So, before trying out dirty talk in the bedroom, have an open and honest conversation, and make sure to listen and respect each other's boundaries. And remember, it's okay if dirty talk isn't for you or your partner. What matters most is that you both feel comfortable and happy in your sexual relationship.
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