Is it okay to give away wedding gifts I received? Am I being thrifty or cheap?

Do you have a wedding problem you need some advice on?
Weddings are joyful occasions – but they can also be incredibly stressful. Whether you’re a bride or groom, best woman or man, family member or friend of the couple, the run up to the big day can be tense.
Alison, who has run a venue for 10 years and assists couples with wedding planning, is here to offer a helping hand.
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Dear Ruth,
Congratulations on your wonderful wedding day! It is understandable to be worried about the financial burden of upcoming weddings, especially if your husband works away and you don’t make much use of the gifts you received.
Regifting can be a practical solution in this case, and there is no shame in it. However, it’s important to be mindful that not everyone will see it the same way.
Gift giving should always be about the thought and consideration that best suits each couple. If a couple has requested something specific or asked for cash donations towards a life experience, it’s best to suit their wishes rather than choose to regift.
When you do decide to regift, be selective. Hotel stays, restaurant vouchers, and alcohol are great choices, but be cautious with more personal gifts that may carry sentimental value. Tailor the regifted items to suit their preferences as much as possible and take the time to repackage the gifts nicely.
And always ensure the items are still in good condition and that the chosen present aligns with the happy couple’s preferences and needs.

If you sense some friends might not appreciate the regifting, buying a more modest but thoughtful gift that will not strain your budget could be worth considering. Remember, every couple is different and what matters most is the thought and care you put into your gesture.
I hope this has been helpful,
Best wishes,
Alison

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