December 22nd 2023.
Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger. This week we hear from Barry*, a 35-year-old straight man from New Orleans, who works in the audio porn industry.
Since starting his side-hustle as a voice actor who writes and records erotica for platforms like BLOOM, Barry has discovered his wife, Paula*, really gets off on his dirty talk. He says: “I use dirty talk in bed with my wife almost every time we have sex. It’s a staple of my sex life now and simple check-ins such as “do you like that?” don’t have to break momentum, because I know she loves my voice. I get to lean into affirmative consent, and ask her for her response in a way that reinforces our male dom and female sub dynamic.”
Barry is even helping Paula to be more vocal herself. “I’m encouraging her not to hold back her natural sounds of pleasure. All of her natural vocalisations are sexy.” Paula also loves listening to Barry’s erotic audios. A favourite of hers is from the series Filling a Niche, where Barry tries out sex toys his listeners purchase for him as he narrates a fantasy.
So, without any further ado, here’s how he got on this week…Monday, Barry sneaks out of bed early while his wife is still asleep and makes his way to his recording space in the garage. He does about twenty minutes of vocal warm ups then spends the next two hours recording the most recent script BLOOM sent him – an erotica scene involving a threesome.
Tuesday, Barry is texting his wife while he’s working and she’s curious about his recording yesterday. One of his new erotic audios is posted online and they both hungrily read the comments from other listeners. Later in the evening, she does cardio while listening to the newly-posted audio and, when she showers, Barry joins her in bed. His wife lays on the bed, face-up, propped up a little on her elbows, with her still-wet hair dangling besides her pretty face. Barry stands in front of her, fully nude, and she looks up at him while she takes him in her mouth.
Wednesday, Barry and his wife make it a point to have a steak dinner with a glass of wine every Wednesday and they’ve kept this weekly tradition for years. They also check in with each other, ask if there’s anything on the other’s mind. Wednesday nights are usually when they’re most likely to cuddle up and fall asleep without sex.
Thursday, Barry is recording a toy-review audio. He has a gift wish list, and several of his listeners have gifted him sex toys so he’s been reviewing them on mic. He sneaks into bed with his wife, gets cosy and it isn’t long before he’s aroused again. No toy can satisfy him the way she does.
Barry and Paula have an amazing sex life that combines his erotic voice work with their own intimate moments. They both encourage one another to express their pleasure and enjoy exploring their fantasies.
Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we take a seven-day peek into the sex life of a stranger. This week, let’s meet Barry*, a 35-year-old straight man from New Orleans who works in the audio porn industry.
For the past few months, Barry has been moonlighting as a voice actor, writing and recording erotica for platforms like BLOOM. He's discovered that his wife, Paula*, loves his dirty talk.
"I use dirty talk in bed with my wife almost every time we have sex," Barry says. "It's become a staple of my sex life. I can ask her for her response in a way that reinforces our male dom and female sub dynamic, while still making sure I'm getting affirmative consent."
He's also helping Paula be more vocal. "I'm encouraging her not to hold back her natural sounds of pleasure," he explains. "All of her natural vocalisations are sexy."
Not only does Paula love Barry's dirty talk, but she also enjoys listening to his erotic audios. Filling a Niche is one of her favourites – in it, Barry tries out sex toys that his listeners purchase for him, while narrating a fantasy.
On Monday, Barry sneaks out of bed early to record in his garage. He does twenty minutes of vocal warm-ups before spending two hours recording the script for a threesome scene. He's pent-up and aroused by the time his wife wakes up.
Later on Tuesday, Barry and Paula examine the comments on his newly posted audio. Paula loves the fact that other women find his voice attractive. That night, she lays on the bed and Barry stands in front of her. She looks up at him as she takes him in her mouth and Barry can't help but praise her.
Wednesday is steak dinner night for Barry and Paula. They check in with one another and have some of their best conversations. Most of the time, they won't have sex after dinner, but just cuddle up and fall asleep.
Thursday is spent recording an erotic toy-review audio. Barry has a gift wish list and several of his listeners have gifted him sex toys. His mic is live while he tests them out and his listeners get to hear every shudder and moan.
When he's finished, Barry sneaks into bed with his wife and gets aroused again. He's reminded that no toy can satisfy him the way she does.
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