November 8th 2023.
We all know that different strokes work for different folks and this couldn't be truer when it comes to sex. Everyone has their own preferences, whether it's something simple or something more extreme.
This week on the Smut Drop podcast, presenter Miranda Kane spoke to sex worker, SkullCandy Bri, who specializes in exploring extreme kinks. Bri's main focus is on consensual non consent, which is often referred to as 'rape fantasy'.
"It has been a really interesting niche to explore," Bri says. This topic was discussed in a previous episode of Smut Drop, which focused on setting 'bottom lines' with a partner and establishing safe words when engaging in the fetish.
When it comes to exploring extreme kinks, Bri takes precautions. "I have people around me who have my best interests at heart and who care about me, and my mental and emotional wellbeing," she says. Bri explores a wide spectrum of fetishes, including burping, foot smothering, pegging, different types of BDSM, and stuffing tights into her mouth.
But not everyone is into extreme kinks. So, what are the UK's most popular fetishes? According to data from Joy Loves Dolls and Google search trends, here's a list of the top ones.
Sadism and masochism (S&M) is one of the most popular kinks, with around 10 million hits a year online. Humiliation, which is when you get sexual pleasure from being embarrassed and belittled, is another one. Cock and ball torture (CBT) involves pain or constriction to the penis or testicles. Mummification is when you get sexual gratification from being wrapped head to toe and rendered immobile. Cuckolding is when you watch your partner have sex or be sexual with someone else. Claustrophilia is when you get sexual pleasure from small spaces. Vicarphilia is when you're turned on by other people's sexual conquests. Role play is when you act out fantasies or roles that are considered sexy to participants. Impact play is when you hit or are hit with an object in a safe and consensual way, and age play is when you get sexual gratification from pretending to be a different age than you are.
It's important to remember that whatever your kink, everyone needs to be on board and happy to be part of it. If you're looking to communicate your kinks to your partner, we have a few resources that might help.
So, what are your kinks? Share your story and let us know.
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