I enjoyed sex until I realized my partner was losing interest.

When it comes to a woman's orgasm, there is no set schedule. It's a natural and personal experience that can't be rushed or forced. I was reminded of this during a sexual encounter a few years ago, where my partner was eager to make me climax but lacked the patience to see it through. Despite my efforts to keep going, his interest began to fade after just 10 minutes of trying. It's a common issue with many men - they want to fulfill their duty as a sexual partner, but often lack the patience or skills to do so.

As I lay there with his head between my legs, I could tell by his furrowed brow and intense focus that he was eagerly waiting for the "big reward." But as soon as I could feel the familiar build-up of pleasure, he lifted his head and suggested we take a break. In other words, he was "clocking off" for the day. This phrase refers to a male lover who cares about fulfilling his "job," but may finish early due to exhaustion or lack of skill.

Unfortunately, this is a common occurrence for women. The recent study on the "orgasm gap" confirms that men climax close to 30% more during sex compared to women. While there are various reasons for this, such as lack of sex education and biological differences, I have a theory of my own - men often give up too soon.

There are two types of men when it comes to this issue. There are those who are selfish and only care about their own pleasure, ignoring their partner's needs once they have climaxed. And then there are those who genuinely want their partner to have a good time, but may get frustrated or lazy and give up before she has a chance to orgasm.

I spoke to several men about this, and their responses were quite interesting. Some admitted to giving up on their partner's pleasure in the past, while others said they had never struggled to finish the job. But from my experience, many women will overcompensate, fake their climax, or simply say they don't want to come tonight rather than telling their partner how they truly feel.

This lack of honesty is the real problem with the orgasm gap. Women need to communicate their needs and desires, and men need to listen and pay attention to their partner's physical cues. And if they are unsure, simply ask. It doesn't make you a bad lover - in fact, it shows that you care about your partner's pleasure.

Of course, not all women can climax, and that's okay. But in that case, it's important for the woman to communicate what makes sex pleasurable for her. And while men have a lot to answer for when it comes to the orgasm gap, women also have a responsibility to themselves and their partners. It may be uncomfortable or awkward, but speaking up during sex is crucial for both parties to have a fulfilling experience.

And if after all of this, your partner still isn't willing to make the same effort, it may be time to re-evaluate the relationship. Clocking off early and not caring about your partner's pleasure is rude and unacceptable. Women deserve better.

So let's all work towards closing the orgasm gap and creating a more fulfilling and equal sexual experience for both partners. And remember, there's no need to rush - a woman's orgasm doesn't have a time schedule.

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