August 30th 2024.
Welcome to "How I Do It," the series where we give you a sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger for seven days. This week, we're hearing from Aaron, a 33-year-old bi-curious man from Bristol who works as a freelance writer. After growing tired of dating apps like Hinge and Tinder, Aaron made a vow to himself to try and meet potential romantic interests in real life.
According to Aaron, it's a challenge to find someone on a dating app who shares common interests and can hold meaningful conversations that could lead to a relationship. But a few weeks ago, while at a music festival, Aaron bumped into an old school friend, Lisa. After asking her out, the pair are now dating. "It's still early days, but the sex we've had has been phenomenal," Aaron says. "We communicate amazingly and have similar desires in the bedroom."
So, without further ado, let's take a peek into Aaron's week. But fair warning, his sex diary is not safe for work.
Monday:
When I first met Lisa, the conversation flowed effortlessly and I mustered up all the self-confidence I could to ask her out. I was overjoyed when she said yes. The past few dates have been amazing, but my previous dating experiences haven't really led to anything substantial, so I'm still a bit nervous for our date tonight.
After a busy weekend camping with friends, I rush home just in time to shower and pick out an outfit. I opt for a pair of black cords, a blue shirt, and my favorite low-top Dr. Martens. Lisa and I have planned to meet in a park, with her bringing strawberries and cream and me bringing the prosecco. This is our fourth date, but it feels like we've skipped some of the usual steps since Lisa is an old school friend who I haven't seen in over ten years.
After hours of good conversation and joking around, we walk back to Lisa's house. We start foreplay on top of the covers in her bedroom, and I gently stroke her neck and stomach before picking up the pace. As I struggle to take off my shirt, Lisa helps me and then effortlessly removes her own. I start to caress her shoulders, then her elbows, and finally her breasts.
Lisa is incredibly communicative in the bedroom and knows exactly what she enjoys. This encourages me to do the same. She asks me to go on top, then she's on top, and we try various positions until we both climax. And then we do it all over again about an hour later. I've never had a sexual partner be so open about their preferences, and it's really refreshing. Lisa definitely tells me what she likes, which I think is a major reason why we're so sexually compatible.
Tuesday:
The alarm goes off an hour before Lisa has to get ready for work, giving us some time for more fun in the morning. We kiss passionately before quickly moving through the stages, both of us ending up covered in sweat. Just as we're about to finish, the alarm goes off again, signaling that it's time to get up.
It's a bit of a mood killer, but Lisa manages to find her clothes and get dressed in record time before heading out the door. The physical exertion from the night before and lack of sleep make the day less productive than I'd like, but I'm in a great mood. Later in the evening, I fall asleep as soon as my head hits the pillow.
Wednesday:
I wake up feeling rejuvenated, but I won't see Lisa until Thursday, so today is all about prioritizing my work. After I finish an article for a magazine, Lisa sends me a photo of herself wearing the football shirt she somehow managed to steal from me. She looks amazing!
Later, I go out to dinner with friends. I believe it's important to continue nurturing other relationships even when you start dating someone new. After all, these friends will likely be in your life for much longer than any romantic fling. At the moment, I'm not actively searching for anything long-term. Some of my friends are married, but I don't feel a sense of urgency. Of course, that could change in the future.
Welcome to "How I Do It," a series where we give you a sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger for seven days. This week, we meet Aaron, a 33-year-old bi-curious freelance writer from Bristol. After growing tired of using dating apps like Hinge and Tinder, Aaron made a vow to himself to meet potential romantic partners in real life.
"It's a challenge to find someone on a dating app who shares common interests and can have meaningful conversations that could lead to a relationship," Aaron explains his decision.
Luckily, Aaron ran into an old school friend, Lisa, at a music festival a few weeks ago. After asking her out, they are now dating. "It's still early days, but the sex we've had has been phenomenal. We communicate amazingly well, and our desires in the bedroom are similar," Aaron shares.
So, without further ado, let's take a peek into Aaron's week. But, beware, the following sex diary is not safe for work.
Monday:
When I first met Lisa, the conversation flowed effortlessly, and I mustered all the self-confidence I had to ask her out. I was thrilled when she said yes. The past three dates have been amazing, but I've had some disappointing dating experiences in the past, so I'm still a bit nervous for our date tonight.
After a busy weekend camping with friends, I quickly shower and put together an outfit. We are meeting in the park, and Lisa is bringing strawberries and cream while I'm bringing prosecco. It's only our fourth date, but since we were old school friends who lost touch for over ten years, it feels like we've skipped a few of the usual steps when dating someone new.
After hours of great conversation and laughter, we walk back to Lisa's house. We start foreplay on top of the covers in her bedroom, and I gently stroke her neck and stomach before picking up the pace. Lisa is very communicative in bed and knows exactly what she likes, which encourages me to do the same. We try out different positions, and we both climax. An hour later, we do it all over again.
I've never had a partner who is so open about what they enjoy in bed, and it's refreshing. Lisa is very vocal about what she likes, and I think that's why we are so sexually compatible.
Tuesday:
The alarm goes off an hour before Lisa has to get ready for work, giving us enough time for some more fun in the morning. We kiss passionately and quickly move through the stages, both ending up sweaty and satisfied. Just as we are about to finish, the alarm goes off again, signaling that it's time to get up.
It's a bit of a mood killer, but Lisa quickly gets dressed and heads out the door. I feel a bit tired and unproductive for the rest of the day, but I'm in a great mood. Later in the evening, I fall asleep as soon as my head hits the pillow.
Wednesday:
I wake up feeling refreshed, but I won't see Lisa until Thursday, so I decide to focus on my work today. After finishing my article for a magazine, Lisa sends me a photo of herself wearing the football shirt she somehow stole from me. She looks amazing!
Later, I go out for dinner with friends. I believe it's essential to maintain your other relationships when you start dating someone new. After all, these friendships will last longer than most romantic relationships. At the moment, I'm not in a rush to find anything long-term, unlike some of my friends who are already married. But, who knows, that could change in the future.
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