September 16th 2023.
Karla Elia is a certified relationship coach from San Diego who believes that talking about dreams is the perfect starting point for a first date.
Karla, who is married to her own match Dustyn Elia, found and married him in just six months. She shares her advice and tips on her TikTok and YouTube channels, as well as on Shera, a digital platform dedicated to empowering women.
Karla recommends that you should know your relationship needs before the date and pay attention to both the red and green flags. She also warns against 'sweet talkers', men who speak about their past continuously and men who try to look through your phone, as these are all signs of trust issues.
The relationship coach believes that talking about your dreams is the best topic to discuss on a first date. It allows you to show your hopes for the future, without relying too much on the past.
Karla and her husband talked about their dreams, what they wanted from life, having a family, where they'd like to live and the businesses they'd like to build when they first started dating.
She also suggests creating a 'list of threes' to help narrow down your search. This list should include your non-negotiables, the personality traits your ideal person would have and physical aspects you want them to have.
Karla wants to use her tried and tested methods to help others find their perfect match. So why not give her methods a go and see if it works for you?
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