Can arranging sex help time-strapped thirtysomethings?

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February 2nd 2024.

Can arranging sex help time-strapped thirtysomethings?
Clarissa is a busy woman, juggling a career and a family while trying to maintain a healthy sex life with her husband. Despite their hectic schedules, they make an effort to have sex at least once a week. However, Clarissa wishes they could do it more often.

In this week's installment of "How I Do It," we get a glimpse into Clarissa's sex life. She's a 39-year-old professional, married for 10 years with three children. Like many parents, Clarissa and her husband have to schedule sex in order to make time for it. Otherwise, they simply don't have the time.

Clarissa opens up about her desire for a more consistent sex life. She and her husband always feel great after they have sex and often say to each other, "we need to do this more often." But with their busy lives, finding the time can be a challenge. They've even resorted to having sex after a few drinks or a night out, which is always fun but not necessarily what she wants all the time.

To make sure they don't end up in a "total sex drought," Clarissa and her husband have started scheduling sex. It's a way for them to prioritize their intimacy and show each other that they still make time for each other despite their other responsibilities.

Without further ado, here's a look at how Clarissa's week went.

Monday is always a tough day for Clarissa and her husband. After a busy weekend and the kids' first day back at school, they're exhausted by the time they get to bed. Sex is the last thing on their minds, especially with how cold their house is at the moment. They end up cuddling and falling asleep, which is still a nice way to be intimate.

Tuesday is their designated sex night, and they make sure to stick to it. Clarissa's husband plays football with his friends, but they've made it a priority to have sex on Tuesdays. It may seem unsexy to schedule sex, but it works for them. Clarissa even has a workout class earlier in the evening, which boosts her endorphins and confidence.

On Wednesday, Clarissa's husband comes home with a sore ankle from football and needs a hot bath and some painkillers. Sex is put on hold for the night as they take care of his injury. Thursdays and Fridays are usually busy work days for them, but Clarissa's husband works from home and often tries to initiate sex during the day. However, Clarissa is usually busy or focused on something else, and it takes a lot to get her in the mood. But they both know it would be sensible to have sex during the day with their kids at home, so they try to make it happen when they can.

Friday is an early night for the couple, but they don't end up having sex. They have a kiss and a cuddle, but that's all. Saturday is a busy day with friends staying over, and they don't have any time for intimacy. Finally, on Sunday, they collapse into bed early after a long weekend filled with family and friends. Clarissa feels a bit sad that they didn't have much "adult" time, but there's always next week.

Clarissa's story is relatable to many couples, especially parents. Life can be hectic, and finding time for intimacy can be a challenge. But Clarissa and her husband make an effort to prioritize their sex life, even if it means scheduling it. And at the end of the day, they're happy and content with their love and family.

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