November 6th 2024.
Hi there! It's time for some advice from Metro's very own agony aunt, Em Clarkson. She's here to help solve all your problems and offer some solid advice. This week, she's tackling issues on being suspicious of a boyfriend's female friend and dealing with family conflicts. So let's dive in and see what Em has to say!
First, let's talk about this trip your boyfriend is on. You've expressed your discomfort with the situation and even jokingly asked to come along. But he didn't invite you, and now you've seen pictures of him with his single female friend. It's natural to feel anxious and upset, but let's not jump to conclusions here. Regardless of what's happening on the trip, your feelings are valid and should be addressed.
But here's the thing, it's unlikely that he would cheat on you in front of his friends, especially when he knows you're aware of the situation. Plus, it's normal for two single friends to gravitate towards each other, especially in a group setting. So don't let the "men and women can't be just friends" stereotype get to you. The real issue here is your boyfriend's lack of consideration for your feelings.
Let's have a conversation with him when he gets back and address your concerns. It's important to have clarity in your relationship and you have every right to ask for it. If you're scared to push for commitment, take a step back and think about why that is. You deserve to feel peaceful and safe in your relationship, and if you're not, it's time to reevaluate things.
Moving on to our next reader conundrum. It seems like you have a history of falling out with your brother, and it's always you who ends up apologizing even though you're not at fault. The last time, you invited your brother to a concert but your sister-in-law tagged along without your permission. Then, when you couldn't find them in the crowd and asked to meet up, they refused to leave their spot.
It's understandable that you feel frustrated and hurt in these situations. It's not fair for you to always be the one apologizing and making amends. Maybe it's time to have a conversation with your brother and explain how you feel. Communication is key in any relationship, and it's important for both parties to listen and understand each other's perspective.
In the end, remember that your feelings and well-being are important. Don't let others disregard them or make you feel guilty for expressing them. You deserve to feel happy and at peace, so don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and have those difficult conversations. Sending you lots of luck and love. xx
"Hey there! It's great to have you here. I'm Em Clarkson, Metro's agony aunt. I'm here to listen and offer advice on any problems or concerns you may have. So, let's dive into this week's reader conundrums and see how I can help.
One reader is feeling anxious about her boyfriend's trip to Paris with a group of friends, including a single female friend. She expressed her discomfort and even jokingly asked to join the trip, but her boyfriend didn't take her along. Now, she's seen pictures on Instagram where he's always standing next to the female friend and she hasn't heard from him since he left. It's natural to feel worried and insecure, but remember, your feelings are valid regardless of what's happening on the trip.
In fact, it's unlikely that he's cheating on you in front of his friends. And just because a man and a woman are friends, it doesn't mean they'll have an affair. What's more concerning is your boyfriend's lack of communication and understanding of your feelings. When he's back, it's important to have a conversation about your relationship and what you need from him. You deserve to feel peaceful and safe in a relationship.
Now, let's move on to another reader who has a history of fall outs with her eldest brother. After every fight, she ends up apologizing even though she's not at fault. Recently, she invited her brother to a concert with their other sibling, but their sister-in-law also tagged along. On the day of the concert, she arrived late and couldn't find her brothers in the crowd. When she asked them to meet her, they refused because they didn't want to lose their good spot.
It's understandable to feel hurt and frustrated in this situation. It's important to have open and honest communication with your family, and it's not fair for you to always be the one apologizing. Maybe it's time to have a conversation with your brother about how his actions make you feel and find a way to resolve conflicts in a more respectful manner.
Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and understanding in all relationships. Don't be afraid to speak up and express your feelings. I believe in you. Sending you lots of love and luck. Until next time, take care. xx"
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