January 26th 2024.
We've all been in a situation where we've planned out what to wear on a first date before it's even ended. But sometimes, despite our best efforts, the days that follow pass by without so much as a text from the person we went out with. It's frustrating and confusing, but it could be because of simple mistakes that we're making that are unintentionally ruining our chances of getting a second date. The good news is, these mistakes are easily fixable. So if you have a first date coming up, take some advice from matchmaker Siobhan Copeland to increase your chances of a successful second date.
One mistake people often make is choosing a first date location that is too formal or crowded. According to Siobhan, restaurants and coffee shops are not ideal because they can feel uncomfortable and impersonal. She suggests opting for a cozy, relaxed venue that you can reserve in advance. She also recommends trying a fun and unique activity, like a glow-in-the-dark art class, to help break the ice and create conversation without feeling like you're in a job interview.
But be careful when choosing an activity. According to a poll, some of the worst first date activities include escape rooms, long walks, open mic nights, hiking, and karaoke. So it's important to choose something that both you and your date will enjoy.
When it comes to greeting your date, it's best to avoid physical contact on the first interaction. Instead, just offer a smile, make eye contact, and say a friendly "Hi, nice to meet you." Pay attention to your date's body language throughout the night and if there is mutual interest, you can end the night with a kiss on the cheek. And remember to avoid certain topics like exes, complaining, and politics. Stick to positive and light-hearted conversations.
If you're interested in seeing the person again, you can express that towards the end of the date and gauge their response. Siobhan suggests avoiding excessive texting in between dates, as it's important to have things to talk about when you see each other again. She also recommends aiming for a mid-week or Sunday date, as people tend to have more time and energy during those days.
When it comes to food, it's best to avoid anything that might be messy or cause bad breath, like garlic or onions. Also, be aware of any food allergies your date might have. And while it might be tempting to grab a quick meal at McDonald's, it was actually voted as one of the worst places for a first date.
And finally, when the bill comes, it's always polite to ask how your date would like to handle it. If they insist on paying, accept their generosity graciously and don't feel obligated to promise to pay for the next date. It's not about owing each other anything, it's about appreciating each other's company.
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