December 28th 2024.
Are you ready to find that special someone and settle down? If so, there are a few important questions you should ask them before taking that next big step. Starting a healthy relationship in 2025 means starting off on the right foot. Sure, the initial attraction and chemistry can be exciting, but it's important to have open and honest conversations to ensure a solid foundation for the future.
According to dating site Bumble, singles in the New Year are focused on "future proofing" their relationships, with 95% of them saying that their hopes for the future impact who and how they date. This means that important conversations that were once reserved for later on in the relationship are now being brought up in the early stages of dating. In fact, over a quarter of women are looking to discuss relationship issues before becoming exclusive.
To help navigate these important conversations, licensed professional counselor Jeff, also known as Therapy Jeff on TikTok, has come up with nine questions to ask your date. These questions are designed to avoid misunderstandings and set clear boundaries, while also giving insight into their views on relationships and future plans. So, without further ado, let's dive into the juiciest question of all...
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One of the most crucial questions to ask your potential partner is whether or not they believe they are currently in a relationship with you. This may seem like a simple question, but it's important to know if your actions or words have led them to believe there is something more between you. Jeff explains that this is different from asking if they are currently in a relationship, as it also includes situationships or love triangles.
It's also important to discuss what each of you considers to be cheating, both physically and emotionally. Everyone has different boundaries and definitions of what constitutes cheating, so it's crucial to have a clear understanding of each other's expectations. This not only helps to avoid hurtful situations, but it also allows for open and honest communication in the future.
What kind of relationship do you want? This may seem like a simple question, but there are many different dynamics in modern relationships. Monogamy is no longer the only option, and it's important to know if you and your partner have the same idea of what your relationship will look like. Jeff suggests discussing topics such as monogamy, polyamory, and whether or not you want to eventually open up the relationship.
Another important conversation to have is about living together. It's often assumed that moving in together is the next step in a relationship, but that doesn't have to be the case. Jeff suggests discussing if living together is a goal or if you prefer a different living arrangement. This is also a good time to talk about your expectations and plans for the future.
Let's talk about sex. Everyone has their own unique turn-ons and kinks, and it's important to discuss these with your partner. Jeff reminds us that the goal is not to judge or shame each other, but rather to understand and respect each other's desires. Knowing your partner's preferences can help to keep things exciting and avoid any uncomfortable situations.
Communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to know your partner's biggest worries about your relationship. By addressing these concerns early on, you can work through them together and build a strong foundation for your relationship. This could be anything from different communication styles to conflicting timelines or goals.
Will your partner be your primary emotional support? This may seem like an obvious question, but some people struggle with being a primary support system. Jeff suggests discussing what emotional support looks like for each of you, as well as whether or not it's okay to lean on others for support. This can help to avoid misunderstandings and ensure that both partners feel supported in the relationship.
It's also important to understand your partner's priorities and what they are currently giving their energy to. This could be anything from work or school to family and friends. Knowing your partner's priorities can help you to better understand their perspective and support them in achieving their goals.
Lastly, Jeff suggests asking your partner what they think is important for you to know as you move forward together. This open-ended question can lead to honest and insightful answers, giving you a better understanding of your partner's thoughts and feelings.
Remember, there is no blueprint for a perfect relationship. It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner and address any important questions or concerns early on. By doing so, you can build a strong foundation for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you! Get in touch by emailing us at email.
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