January 5th 2024.
A few months ago, I decided to try and reclaim pleasure in a solo masturbation session. I had no intention of getting excited, simply looking for a convenient porn video. I eventually settled on a basic one of a straight couple having sex on white sheets. It was just a plain orgasm, not some exploration of kinks.
It's understandable why a lot of women don't go beyond the basics when it comes to mainstream sites. It's easier to avoid the scenes of women gagging and the countless penetration shots that dominate male-oriented content. It's a fact that most porn is made from a man's point of view, and it's difficult for a woman to find something with her in mind.
It took me a while to realise that I could gain pleasure from porn, too. I was in my late 20s, struggling with my sex drive, and I wanted to take charge. So I decided to use porn to reclaim that sense of pleasure, and it was a success. Even so, I still felt a strange sense of shame. It was only after a few more tries that I finally let go and enjoyed myself.
Thanks to more female directors in the industry, it's much easier now to find something tailored for women. I use porn to enhance my sex life, and it even spurred a revolution in the industry. I recently asked women on Twitter about their experience with porn, and the results were quite surprising. About a third said they don't watch porn, while some were intimidated by the idea.
For those who are interested in exploring porn, I've got a few tips. Firstly, it's recommended to pay for adult content instead of relying on ads, so you can get a more tailored approach. There are also many sites that focus purely on feminist porn, like FrolicMe and Erika Lust. Additionally, use the search bar to find softer videos that focus more on connection and touch, with women being the instigators of sex.
You may not know what turns you on, and that's okay. Porn is a great way to discover new kinks, so try not to judge yourself. It's also a form of foreplay - get yourself randy and then use that energy to seduce your partner. And remember, you are allowed pleasure, no matter what form it takes.
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