The cowgirl was my least favorite position until I made one change.

You know, it's funny – I've never been a huge fan of being on top during sex. But, the other day, I decided to give it another try after talking to a friend about it over drinks at the pub. She was telling me about how she struggles to surprise her partner in the bedroom because he's already experienced so much. But, there was one thing she had yet to try – the classic cowgirl position.

My interest was piqued as she described how she surprised her partner by starting off in the classic cowgirl position. And then, she took it up a notch by squatting on top of him with her feet on either side of his body. And let me tell you, it had the desired effect – he was left speechless. After hearing her story, I couldn't wait to try it out for myself.

But, before I get into that, let's talk about the classic cowgirl position. I have to admit, it's never been my favorite. For one, the word "cowgirl" just doesn't sit well with me – I am a woman, not a girl, and I am certainly not wrangling any animals. Plus, I sometimes feel self-conscious about my body while in this position. And depending on the type of mattress we're on, it can be hard to find a good rhythm.

But the main reason I don't enjoy being on top is simply because it doesn't do much for me physically. I've read countless articles and books, and seen movies that praise the cowgirl position as the ultimate way for women to achieve orgasm – by taking control and positioning ourselves in a way that hits the G-spot. But for me, it just doesn't live up to the hype. I'll take missionary or doggy style any day.

However, I didn't want to give up without giving it my best shot. So over the years, I've experimented with different variations of the cowgirl position to see if I could find one that worked better for me. I tried the "backward" version, where you face away from your partner while riding them. And while it does have its perks, like allowing for anal play and giving your partner a great view of your behind, it's just too much effort for too little reward.

Then, there's the "side ride" – which I read about in a magazine once. It can be done in a few different ways, but the basic idea is that you sit on top of your partner as if they were a chair, with your feet on the floor for stability. Personally, I found this position to be exhausting and not very enjoyable for either of us. So, we quickly abandoned it.

But, just when I was about to give up on the cowgirl position altogether, I discovered the squatting cowgirl. At first, I felt a bit awkward trying to get into position – squatting isn't exactly the most graceful movement, especially when you're trying to do it during sex. And I couldn't help but worry about my stomach bunching up, which is always a concern of mine during intimate moments.

But any self-consciousness I felt melted away when I saw the look on my partner's face. He was absolutely thrilled. And now, the squatting cowgirl has become my secret weapon. I don't use it all the time, but when I want to add some excitement to our sex life, I bring it out – and it never fails to do the trick.

So, while the classic cowgirl may not be my cup of tea, I've found a variation that works for me. And that's the beauty of sex – what works for one person may not work for another, and that's okay. The path to pleasure is different for everyone. But, I'm glad I didn't give up on the cowgirl position without giving it a fair chance. Who knows, maybe there are other variations out there waiting for me to discover.

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