November 15th 2023.
Ahh yes, a 'gag' gift. How thoughtful.
It might still seem a little early to talk about the office Christmas party, but it's around the corner and the anticipation is building.
A big part of the festivities is always the traditional Secret Santa.
In theory, it's a great way to save money at a time of year when we're already spending a lot.
Rather than buying several presents, you just buy one. And a price cap means you're not getting too carried away.
It's a good idea for the workplace, but also works with friends and family. All in all, it sounds like something we should embrace.
But when it comes down to it, I'm not a fan. My problem is with the execution.
So many times I've been given something random or useless by colleagues, and I've had to force a grin to avoid offending anyone.
In a way, it's often destined to go wrong.
You're buying for someone you hardly know, and getting a gift from someone who's never met you. Or there are the office comedians who think bad taste is hilarious. In these situations, it won't end well.
What if it was less awkward for both of us?
Yes, it can work, and it can be great. But from my experiences, I'm less than enthusiastic about taking part in its current form.
And I'm not alone. Research by my UK Money Bloggers community found that one in three men and one in four women would rather not participate.
And when they do, more than one-third of people say they'll give away the gift they receive.
With an estimated £167million spent via this present exchange in the workplace alone, that's almost £60million of wasted cash this year.
But what if instead of reluctantly taking part in something everyone else is doing, you can feel good about being involved?
Wouldn't you rather have the choice to give to a good cause over another unwanted gift?
What if unwanted presents weren't bought at all? What if the thought is genuinely what counts?
This is where my idea of 'give or gift' comes into play.
At UK Money Bloggers, you can print out Secret Santa sheets that allow you to write your name to go in the hat, and also tick a box stating whether you'd like to receive a gift or have your mystery Santa give to charity on your behalf.
The money that would have gone on festive novelty books and mugs instead goes to a good cause, to those who need it more than you.
You can choose any charity close to your heart, but we've partnered with KidsOut, which will use your donation to buy toys or experiences for children in refuges who have escaped from domestic violence. There's a JustGiving page that makes it easy to give your money.
But if you look forward to Secret Santa, keep on, 'tis the season after all.
If you like the idea, please do tell your colleagues and friends about it, and encourage them to join in. The more people who join in, the more money we can all raise.
Do remember, though, that it's about the choice. So you can still say you want a 'gift' - there's nothing wrong with that.
And especially in small groups of friends where you know each other well, it can be a good way to exchange presents.
But if you're not fussed about receiving a gift and would rather spread some festive love to those who really need it, you just need to tick the 'give' box.
You can donate as a Secret Santa at the Just Giving page.
So this year, why not make your Secret Santa exchange a meaningful one? Let's make a difference this Christmas!
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