My soon-to-be spouse has some wild plans for our wedding day that I can hardly believe.

Hey there Jason,

I wanted to reach out to you and offer some help with your wedding preparations. I understand that as the big day gets closer, the nerves are starting to set in. It's completely normal to feel this way and I'm here to help ease your worries.

As a wedding planner and venue owner, I've seen it all and I'm happy to offer my advice. I know that weddings can be incredibly stressful for everyone involved, whether you're the bride, groom, or a family member or friend of the couple. That's why I'm here to lend a helping hand.

I read your letter about your upcoming nuptials and there's one thing in particular that's causing you some concern. Your partner has expressed a desire to sneak away during the reception for a quickie in a locked cupboard or cloak room. I can see why this would be an exciting prospect, but I also understand your worries about the potential risks involved.

It's completely understandable that you don't want your family and friends to find out about your adventurous romantic life. You would be mortified if anyone walked in on you or if the secret somehow got out after the fact. But at the same time, you don't want to disappoint your future wife by saying no to something she really wants.

Let me assure you, Jason, that you are not alone in this dilemma. Many couples face similar situations as they plan their weddings. And while there are other ways to keep the excitement alive without risking being caught, I also believe that it's important for you and your partner to have some private time together on your special day.

Of course, it's important to be careful and plan this carefully. Choose a time when guests are least likely to notice your absence, like later in the evening when most guests have left or are too busy dancing. And make sure to pick a private location, like the bride's toilet, to minimize the risk and make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.

But above all else, it's crucial to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and concerns. Let them know what you're comfortable with and what you're not. This will not only help you understand each other better but also set mutual boundaries.

And remember, it's completely okay to say no if you feel strongly about not wanting to risk being caught. Your partner should understand and respect your feelings as well. Perhaps you could offer a compromise, like planning a special moment that suits your partner's fantasy for the wedding night or honeymoon.

But at the end of the day, it's important that both of you feel comfortable and happy with the decisions you make. Your wedding day should be about celebrating your love and commitment, not about worrying about being caught in a compromising position. So communicate openly and find a compromise that works for both of you.

I wish you a memorable and happy wedding day, Jason. And remember, if you ever need any more advice or just want to share your story, feel free to reach out. I'm here to help.

Best of luck with everything!

Warmly,

Alison

P.S. Do you have a story you'd like to share? I'd love to hear it. Feel free to email me at jess.email. And don't forget to share your thoughts in the comments below.

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