September 27th 2024.
As a single woman, I had full control over my sex life. But now, I am in a new relationship and things have changed. Welcome to How I Do It, where we take a peek into the sex life of a stranger for seven days. Today, we hear from Jasmine, a 24-year-old data analyst from London who has recently started dating her boyfriend, Matt. Before Matt, Jasmine had been single for two years and had lost interest in sex. But now, she can't seem to get enough of it.
Jasmine loves the feeling of safety and intimacy she experiences with Matt during sex. However, she has noticed that their frequency of intimacy has decreased. What used to be a daily occurrence has now become a once-a-week event. Jasmine is worried that the honeymoon phase of their relationship is already over. She shares, "My sex drive has never been higher, and I am struggling to control it. I want to keep things interesting and try new things with my partner. I don't want our sex life to become boring and routine."
So, without further delay, let's dive into how Jasmine's week went. But before that, don't forget to sign up for The Hook-Up, where we share all the juicy stories and tips on spicing things up in the bedroom. Now, let's get into the not-safe-for-work sex diary.
Monday started with Jasmine and Matt doing their own thing, as they usually do on Mondays. They both work from home, but in different parts of London. Jasmine was focused on her work, determined to start the week on a good note. This was quite rare for her, as she had been consumed by her high sex drive lately. In fact, for the past two weeks, they had not spent a single day without having sex multiple times, in different places. Jasmine admits that she enjoys giving pleasure to Matt more than receiving it, and it turns her on to see him satisfied.
However, something had changed in the past few days. They were not having sex as often, and Jasmine feared that the honeymoon phase was over. She also realized that her sex drive was much higher than Matt's, and she couldn't control her desire for him. She went to bed with these thoughts, hoping that things would get back on track.
Tuesday was a special day for Jasmine and Matt as they had planned a date night. Jasmine was excited to see Matt after work, especially because he looked so attractive in his white linen shirt and cargo shorts. However, after a dinner and a depressing play, they returned to Jasmine's place around 11 pm. Jasmine was eager to be intimate with Matt, but he didn't seem to reciprocate her feelings. This made her feel disappointed and insecure. As a single person, she had control over her sex life, and she would only bring someone home if they both wanted the same thing. But now, in a relationship, she had to respect Matt's boundaries. She tried not to overthink it, but she couldn't help feeling a little hurt.
Wednesday was a work-from-home day for both Jasmine and Matt, which meant they had time for morning sex. They usually start their day with a leisurely and passionate lovemaking session before logging on to work. Sometimes, they even have a quick rendezvous in the afternoon. However, on this particular day, Matt had already logged on by 6:30 am, while Jasmine was still struggling to open her eyes. The bright light from his screen made it difficult for her to focus. She mentions, "There was too much blue light in my bed at that moment."
Despite the challenges, Jasmine and Matt's sex life is still exciting and fulfilling. They may have some ups and downs, but they are determined to keep things interesting and maintain the passion in their relationship. After all, that's what love and intimacy are all about.
As a single person, I used to have complete control over my sex life. But now that I'm in a new relationship, things have definitely changed. Welcome to How I Do It, where we give you a glimpse into the sex life of a stranger. This week, we're hearing from Jasmine, a 24-year-old data analyst living in London who is currently in a new relationship with her boyfriend Matt.
Jasmine had been single for the past two years before she met Matt, and she admits that she used to have no interest in sex. But now, things have completely turned around and her sex drive has never been higher. She loves feeling safe during sex with Matt, but has noticed that the frequency of their intimate moments has decreased since the initial honeymoon phase.
"I want to keep trying new things with my partner in a safe space," Jasmine shares. "I don't want our sex life to become routine or boring. It's nice to keep things exciting and unpredictable."
So, without further ado, let's dive into how Jasmine's week went with Matt.
Monday
As usual, Matt and I spend Mondays apart, each working from our own homes. Sex isn't really on my mind today as I have a lot of work to get through. I'm actually focused for once, determined to start the week off strong.
This is quite rare for me, as lately I've been a sex-crazed monster. Matt and I used to have sex every day, sometimes multiple times in a day, in various locations throughout our home. But in the past two weeks, things have changed and we've only been intimate once a week at most.
I worry that this is a sign that the honeymoon phase is over, but I still have hope that things will pick up again. I go to bed with these thoughts, hoping that this week will bring back the passion we once had.
Tuesday
I'm excited to see Matt after work as we have a dinner and theatre date planned. The weather is warm and he looks incredibly attractive in his white linen shirt and cargo shorts. I can't help but feel the urge to take him home and spend the whole evening in bed together.
However, the play we watch is quite depressing and it dampens my mood a bit. When we finally get to my place, I start kissing him all over, but he doesn't seem as into it as I am. I feel a bit disappointed, as I always want him but he doesn't seem to initiate sex as often as I do.
As a single person, I never had to deal with this kind of rejection. I was always in control and I would only bring someone home if we both wanted the same thing. The sex may not have been as good, but I always felt wanted and desired. Now, I have to respect Matt's boundaries and try not to let my ego get hurt.
Wednesday
Today is a work from home day for both of us, which means we have the opportunity for some morning sex. This is one of the perks of being in a relationship and working from home together. We can have a leisurely morning and a steamy session in bed before logging onto work.
Usually, this is just the beginning of our day filled with intimacy. We've even had a few occasions where we've snuck in a midday rendezvous while pretending to be on work calls. But today, none of that happens. Matt is already logged on by 6:30am and I'm still struggling to open my eyes. The bright light from his screen is a bit of a mood killer, and it's hard to get in the mood when there's too much blue light in bed.
Despite the lack of action, we still have a productive day working together at home. And who knows, maybe we'll make up for lost time later tonight.
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