October 14th 2023.
Money is a delicate subject, especially when it comes to marriage. One bride-to-be recently took to Reddit to vent her frustrations after her fiancé disagreed with her suggestion to keep some of their finances separate.
The 38-year-old woman described how the couple quickly became divided when discussing their finances after getting engaged. She proposed that they keep 10% of their respective incomes in separate accounts - something her partner found to be a sign of lack of commitment to the marriage.
Though 32% of married couples split their finances completely, the same amount share all of their income, and the rest use a hybrid approach. Unfortunately, the Reddit user's fiancé was not willing to compromise, and suggested they flip a coin to determine the financial arrangement.
The comments on the post were largely sympathetic to the bride-to-be. Many were quick to point out that her financial obligations don't just include her partner, given that she has a child from a prior relationship and a sick mother. Practical advice was also offered, such as talking to a lawyer or financial advisor about setting up a living trust for her daughter.
Money can be a source of disagreement and conflict in relationships, but it doesn't have to be the end of a couple's story. With some compromise and understanding, it can be possible to find a solution that works for both parties.
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