A subtle change that wise leaders make is turning the focus of their humor to themselves as they grow in influence. This matters for two reasons –
(1) As you get more senior, it is easy to think your jokes have gotten funnier. In reality, people around you are just significantly more likely to laugh at your jokes.
(2) It is easy to forget just how impactful your words can be. I’ve been on the receiving end of humor that was well intentioned. But it got uncomfortable quickly. It makes a world of a difference when the focus of your humor is you. It helps create a culture where everyone understands it isn’t worth taking yourself too seriously around here.
A sense of humor is a powerful tool. It provides levity, adds perspective, and makes work a lot more fun.
As with all powerful tools, it needs to be used well.
