February 11th 2024.
Planning a wedding can be a stressful time, and it's not uncommon for unexpected events to throw a wrench into the carefully laid out plans. This week, we have a letter from Julie, who has just found out she's pregnant and will be seven months along on her wedding day. She's overjoyed about the baby but worried about how it will affect her special day. Let's see if we can help her out.
Dear Julie,
First and foremost, congratulations on your pregnancy! While it may not have been part of the original plan, a surprise baby is always a wonderful blessing. However, I understand that the timing may not be ideal for your upcoming wedding. You've had your venue booked for two years, your dress is ordered, and your honeymoon is all set. It's natural to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to move forward.
Planning a wedding is never easy, and adding a surprise pregnancy into the mix can definitely complicate things. But I want to assure you that your wedding day will not be ruined just because you'll be pregnant. In fact, it may even make it more special. I've been in the wedding industry for 10 years and have seen many pregnant brides walk down the aisle. Some were just in the early stages of pregnancy, while others were only days away from giving birth. And let me tell you, it's always a beautiful and joyous occasion.
One of our recent brides was nine days away from her due date when she got married. She had to reschedule multiple times due to COVID-19, but she refused to let her pregnancy stop her from having her dream wedding. Of course, being heavily pregnant meant she couldn't partake in some traditional wedding activities like drinking or dancing, but having her closest friends and family there to support her made it all the more special. She wouldn't have changed a thing.
Now, let's address your concerns. It's understandable that you may be worried about how being pregnant will affect your wedding day. It's important for you and your fiancé to sit down and discuss what's most important to both of you. Are you both still happy to continue with the wedding as planned, or do you feel like postponing it would be a better option? You must support each other's individual needs and desires for your special day.
If you do decide to go ahead with the wedding as planned, there are a few adjustments you may need to make. You'll likely need even more help from your family and friends with setting up and breaking down the venue. Don't be afraid to delegate tasks and share responsibilities to ease some of the stress. And don't forget to contact your dress shop to see if any alterations can be made to accommodate your growing baby bump.
As for your honeymoon, it's important to check with your doctor to see if it's safe for you to travel during your pregnancy. If you have travel insurance, you may still be able to go on your planned trip, but you may need to make some modifications to your plans to ensure your health and safety.
Of course, if you do decide to postpone the wedding, you'll have to consider whether you'll ever have the time to reschedule and plan again once the baby arrives. Life is unpredictable, and sometimes the unexpected can bring so much joy and excitement. You have to take these moments and decide what's best for you and your partner.
Remember, your wedding day is ultimately about the love and commitment between you and your partner. Being pregnant may just add to the joyous occasion. Embrace the changes, make adjustments where needed, and celebrate the unique circumstances that make your special day memorable.
I wish you all the best on your journey to both marriage and parenthood!
Best wishes,
Alison
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