I hope being a mother was more fulfilling.

As the year comes to a close, I can't help but notice all the posts on my social media feed about people reflecting on their biggest achievements of the year. From major career accomplishments to personal goals, it seems like everyone has something to celebrate. As I scrolled through these posts, I couldn't help but think about my own biggest achievement of the year when I was recently asked for a magazine article. And while I knew exactly what it was, I hesitated to share it because it didn't seem like the kind of achievement that society values.

You see, my biggest achievement of the year was giving birth without any pain relief. I wanted to talk about this experience because it was something that I never thought I could do. But in a society that places more importance on things like career success and material possessions, motherhood is often overlooked and undervalued. And as a mother myself, I can attest to the fact that it is the hardest thing I've ever done.

From going through a rough pregnancy while caring for a toddler and working as a teacher, to juggling potty training and breastfeeding, motherhood requires a level of strength and resilience that is often overlooked. Even the simple task of getting two children ready and out the door can feel like an impossible feat. And don't even get me started on bedtime.

But despite the challenges and hard work that comes with being a mother, it often goes unnoticed and unappreciated. Our society is so focused on productivity and measurable achievements that the daily tasks and sacrifices of motherhood are not seen as valuable. And this is further perpetuated by the way mothers are treated in the workplace.

Returning from maternity leave, I quickly realized that there is an unspoken culture of not talking about our children too much at work. We are expected to work as if we don't have kids, and mother as if we don't have work. And if we do talk about our children too much, we are seen as less competent and dedicated to our jobs. It's as if we are expected to do everything, but in the shadows, without inconveniencing anyone else.

But the reality is, motherhood is a full-time job in itself. The mental and physical demands of caring for children are often overlooked and undervalued. And while it may not fit into society's idea of a traditional achievement, it is one of the hardest and most important roles a person can take on.

So to all the mothers out there, I want you to know that you are enough. Your hard work and sacrifices may not be recognized or celebrated in the way they deserve, but they are valuable and worthy. Whether it's managing a successful career or simply finding time for yourself, you are doing an incredible job. And as we enter the festive season, let's take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate the unpaid and unseen labor of mothers that makes this time of year possible.

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