March 22nd 2024.
Months had passed since Florence and her ex-boyfriend split, but despite the silence between them, they couldn't stop thinking about each other. This week, we follow Florence's story as she shares her experience in a complicated situationship with her ex-partner through our series, How I Do It.
Florence, a 43-year-old singer-songwriter, identifies as bisexual and lives in London. She met her ex on Twitter a year ago, and their whirlwind romance led them to move in together after just a month. They were even close to getting engaged. However, after five months, things took a turn for the worse. "He started taking me for granted and lost interest in the relationship," Florence explains. "And to make matters worse, I found pictures of a naked OnlyFans model on his phone. He claimed it was his colleagues who were looking at her, but I didn't believe him."
Their breakup was far from amicable. "We had a heated argument, and I ended up throwing his designer clothes out of the house while shouting 'Damn you to hell!' before slamming the door on him," Florence shares.
For months, they didn't speak to each other, but the longing for each other's presence was undeniable. Recently, they started sleeping together again, and Florence admits to loving their "exciting and adventurous" sex life. But as they approach a make-or-break week, she questions if the drama and potential heartache are worth it.
Without further ado, here's how Florence's week went...
Friday
As she does every day, Florence sends her ex a message every hour. She affectionately calls him "Jeremy" (not his real name) and describes him as a silver fox in his mid-50s who bears a striking resemblance to Chancellor Jeremy Hunt. "Although, I bet the Chancellor isn't as good in bed," she jokes.
Casual sex is not something Florence engages in as it often leaves her in tears. However, their love for each other remains strong, and neither of them is seeing anyone else. They have recently started meeting up once a week for sex, coffee, and conversation.
Over text, they talk about everyday things like his new Adidas trainers, his Tesla, and their gym and nutrition routines. Florence even shares a poem she wrote about her 12-year-old daughter, but she doubts Jeremy understands poetry as he simply reacts with a heart emoji. They also use the Find My Friends app to keep track of each other's whereabouts, and Florence admits to checking it more frequently than he does.
Saturday
Florence spends the day with her daughter, who she loves more than anything in the world, while Jeremy takes care of his two teenagers. They continue to message each other throughout the day, discussing mundane things. Later on, Jeremy attends a football game with his team, Fulham, and Florence supports him from a distance. Unfortunately, they lose, and Jeremy's love for his team is just one of the many things they don't have in common. "He also loves cricket, indie music, politics, designer clothes, artisan coffee, posh custard tarts, and foreign holidays," Florence shares. "I, on the other hand, love none of those things. I'm more into pop music, writing, reading, interior design, and dance and yoga."
Florence receives a selfie from Jeremy at the gym, and she replies with a steamy message about how much she misses him. He responds with a fire emoji, and she can't help but feel the intense chemistry between them. "Despite our differences, we can still hold a conversation, and most importantly, he's kind, respectful, and funny," Florence reveals. "He's also incredibly handsome and very adventurous and generous in bed."
Jeremy goes to sleep early tonight for work, and Florence follows suit at 10 pm.
Sunday
Another day of parenting for both of them, but they continue to message each other. In the evening, their kids go back to their other parent, and with the house to themselves, Florence has the most amazing solo orgasm. She attributes its intensity to the fact that she hasn't had one in a while. Using a vibrator that's so powerful it sounds like a pneumatic road drill (it's actually a sports massage gun), Florence experiences pure bliss. She jokes, "Don't try this at home."
Before going to bed, Florence and Jeremy sext about their plans for their meet up on Wednesday. "He tells me he's looking forward to going down on me," Florence shares. "It's something I never enjoyed until I met him, but his oral technique is mind-blowing, and he always stays down there for as long as I want."
Monday
The sexting continues, and things get steamier with each message. Jeremy expresses his desire to "shoot his load down [Florence's] throat." She's the first woman he's ever been with who allows him to do so, and only the second to give him oral. Florence responds with her own fantasies, admitting she can't wait for him to enter her in the missionary position. "I love watching him from beneath, looking up into his gorgeous blue eyes as he gives me a good hard seeing to," she shares. "I'm also looking forward to anal, as it's always more intense and an entirely different sensation."
Florence also confesses her love for rough sex, something she has been into since her twenties. Jeremy turns her on even more by telling her she needs to be punished and that he plans to attach nipple clamps. "I trust him and feel safe with him," Florence explains. "I never feel used; I just feel lucky to be with him. Our arrangement allows us to have sizzling hot sex and an emotional connection with someone we love and respect, while also having the time and freedom to do what we want."
As the day ends, Florence admits she wouldn't mind if this continued forever.
We didn't speak for months, but we both missed each other tremendously. It's funny how you can still care for someone even after a messy breakup. Welcome to How I Do It, where we explore the inner workings of a stranger's sex life for seven days. This week, we'll be hearing from Florence, a 43-year-old singer-songwriter from London. She's bisexual and currently in a complicated situationship with her ex-boyfriend.
Florence and her ex-boyfriend met a year ago through Twitter and quickly fell into a whirlwind romance. After less than a month, they moved in together and were on the verge of getting engaged. However, things took a turn for the worse when Florence discovered pictures of a naked OnlyFans model on her ex's phone. He claimed it was his colleagues who had been looking at her, but she didn't believe him. This led to a heated argument and a less-than-amicable split.
"We had a shouting match, and I ended up throwing his designer clothes on the ground outside the house, yelling, 'Damn you to hell!' before slamming the door on him," Florence recalls.
For months, they didn't speak to each other, but they both missed each other a lot. Recently, they started sleeping together again, and Florence admits that she loves their exciting and adventurous sex life. Despite their past issues, she still has feelings for him.
But now, as they spend more time together, Florence starts to question whether the drama and potential heartache are worth it. Will this week be the make-or-break for their situationship? Without further ado, let's dive into Florence's week.
Friday:
Like every day, Florence messages her ex, who she affectionately calls Jeremy (not his real name). He's a silver fox in his mid-50s and reminds her of Chancellor Jeremy Hunt. But she's certain that he's much better in bed than the Chancellor. Florence doesn't usually engage in casual sex because it often leaves her feeling emotional, but with Jeremy, it's different. They still love each other and are not seeing anyone else, so they've agreed to meet up once a week for sex, coffee, and conversation.
Throughout the day, they chat over text about everyday things like his new Adidas trainers, his Tesla, and their gym and nutrition routines. Florence even sends him a poem she wrote about her 12-year-old daughter, but she's not sure if he truly appreciates poetry since he only reacts with a heart emoji. They also have a location-sharing app on their phones, so she always knows when he's home safely, although she admits to checking it more than he does.
Saturday:
Florence spends the day with her daughter while Jeremy takes care of his two teenagers. They still message each other, but it's mostly about everyday things. In the evening, Jeremy goes to watch his favorite football team, Fulham, play against Aston Villa. Unfortunately, they lose, and he's quite upset. Their love for their respective teams is just one of the many things they don't have in common. Jeremy also enjoys cricket, indie music, politics, designer clothes, artisan coffee, fancy custard tarts, and exotic vacations. On the other hand, Florence is more into pop music, writing, reading, interior design, dancing, and yoga.
Despite their differences, they still have an incredible spark between them, and they can hold a conversation. More importantly, Jeremy is kind, respectful, and funny, and he's also incredibly handsome and adventurous in bed. He goes to sleep at 6 pm for work while Florence goes to bed at 10 pm.
Sunday:
It's another day of parenting for both Florence and Jeremy, but they still message each other throughout the day. In the evening, their kids go back to their other parent, and there's no chance of reconciliation for either of them as they're not on good terms with their exes. Later that night, Florence enjoys an amazing solo orgasm. She's noticed that her orgasms are more intense when she hasn't had one in a while. She uses a powerful vibrator that she probably shouldn't be using down there, but it does the job. Before going to bed, she and Jeremy sext about their upcoming meet up on Wednesday. He tells her he's looking forward to going down on her, something she never used to enjoy until she met him. But his oral skills are mind-blowing, and he always stays down there for as long as she wants.
Monday:
Florence and Jeremy continue to sext and get increasingly turned on. He tells her he's looking forward to shooting his load down her throat, something she's the first woman to let him do. She's also the second woman to give him oral. She tells him she can't wait for him to enter her in the missionary position, which is her favorite because she loves looking up into his gorgeous blue eyes as he gives her a good, hard time. She's also excited about anal, which is always more intense and a whole different sensation. She asks him to grip her throat and talk dirty to her because she loves it. He turns her on by telling her she needs to be punished and that he'll attach nipple clamps to her. She gasps in pleasure. Despite their rough sex, Florence trusts her ex and feels safe with him. She never feels used; she's just grateful to be with him. This arrangement allows them to have sizzling-hot sex and an emotional connection while also having the time and freedom to do what they want. Florence admits that she would be happy if things continued this way forever.
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