He requested that I plan our first date, but after I did, he stopped responding to me.

So, what brings me to Tinder?

I figured that, after being single for almost two years, it was time to get back out there and give it a try. Despite my lack of enthusiasm for the online dating scene, I found myself replying to the question with what I hoped was a sassy response. We managed to hit it off and, after a few weeks of texting, we went on a date. On the night, I had a great time, but something felt off when he started asking me to use sex toys on him. Although I was open to trying something new, I felt a little uneasy as we had only just met. We moved past it and enjoyed ourselves, but I noticed that his enthusiasm for our next date died off and he stopped messaging me. In the end, I felt used and embarrassed.

So, what brings you to Tinder?

I replied with the thought that as a single woman, I was obviously on Tinder for a reason. We conversed for a few weeks before we eventually met up for a date. We had some Japanese food, a few drinks and then headed back to my place. He noticed the sex toys in my drawer and asked me to use one on him. Despite my initial hesitation, I decided to try it out, and although he seemed to enjoy it, he seemed a bit ashamed afterwards. We talked about our next date and then he became distant. After a week I called him out on it and he didn't respond. I felt like I had been used and felt embarrassed.

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