It’s easiest to find what you’re looking for if you’re clear about what it is you’re looking for.
That sounds absurdly simple – almost obvious. And yet, when we’re searching for a job, a house, a partner, or anything meaningful, it is easy to dive into the search without ever clearly defining the target.
We can then swipe, browse, interview, tour, and explore… but with no clear criteria, everything feels confusing, and nothing feels quite right.
The real work is in getting the clarity upfront. So, take the time. Write it down. Be precise about what matters and what doesn’t.
Once you have that clarity, the decision is almost always simple.
