May 3rd 2024.
My significant other and I have faced some criticism for our 23-year age difference. It's not always easy being in a relationship that goes against societal norms, but we've learned to handle it with grace and confidence. Allow me to give you a glimpse into our sex life for the next seven days in this edition of "How I Do It."
Meet Alexa*, a 38-year-old writer who is in a loving relationship with her partner, Will*, who is 23 years her senior. Alexa is bisexual and she first met Will when they worked together at a bar. There was an instant attraction and after some friendly flirting, she asked him out for drinks. One thing led to another and they ended up spending the night together. For Will, it was initially just a physical connection as he had recently ended a long-term relationship. But for Alexa, it was different. She quickly fell for him and after a few years of being on and off, they officially became a couple in 2014. Fast forward to 2019, and Alexa has happily moved in with Will.
We make love an average of twice a week, although I must admit I wish it were more passionate. Don't get me wrong, I am deeply attracted to Will, but sometimes we take each other for granted. It's a natural thing that happens in long-term relationships, but we are working on keeping the spark alive. Alexa also mentions that they have faced judgment for their age gap, with people often questioning her decision to be with a man much older than her. It's interesting to note that even though Will's age is closer to Alexa's parents, her family has been accepting of their relationship. On the other hand, Will's friends and colleagues were not as understanding initially. But as time passed, the judgment faded and now they are happy and content together.
Let's dive into their sex diary for this week. Please note that the following content is not suitable for work.
Monday
Will has to leave for a work trip this morning, and I hate it. Even though it's only a few days a week and not every week, I still miss him a lot. It's hard to come home to an empty house, eat dinner alone, and not have anyone to share how my day went. You would think that we would be all over each other whenever we have the chance, but sometimes it's not possible to be in the mood on schedule. The traveling also takes a toll on Will's energy levels, so we have to balance our time together with rest and self-care. I often find myself not initiating sex for what seems like a good reason at the time, but then regretting it later when I'm hit with an overwhelming desire for him. And that's exactly what happens today. As I sit at my desk trying to work, all I can think about is sex. In the end, I give in and have a little "me time" with my vibrator. It's one of the perks of working from home, but it can also be quite distracting.
Tuesday
My usual routine continues. Wake up alone, work all day at my desk, and take breaks to lip-sync to "All By Myself" in front of the mirror. In the evening, I meet up with my friend Max for dinner. He tells me that he and his girlfriend have started sharing videos of themselves having sex online. They both enjoy exhibitionism, but they want to explore it anonymously to avoid any repercussions on their careers. Max tells me about the various apps, websites, and clubs that cater to this interest, but it's a world that I am not familiar with. I've had sex in semi-public places in the past, but it's the thrill of getting caught that excites me, not the thought of being watched. I find the idea of someone else seeing my "sex face" quite embarrassing.
Wednesday
Today is a bit out of the ordinary. Will is back from his trip, and we are heading out for a midweek getaway to a cozy cottage with a restaurant nearby. It's exciting to be able to escape for a little while during the week. The drive over is pleasant, and I am tempted to give Will some road-head, but the fear of crashing holds me back. I don't want my Nan to find out that's how I met my end. We have some time to kill before dinner, so we start a fire in the wood-stove and snuggle up on the bed. Hotel sex is always fun, but it seems to be a particular turn-on for Will. I brought a small vibrator with me, and he watches me play with it for a bit before we engage in some mutual oral pleasure. Finally, we have a slow and passionate lovemaking session, with plenty of breaks in between. It's the perfect way to end our midweek getaway.
My partner and I have always faced judgment for our 23-year age gap. It's something that we've grown accustomed to over the years. But despite what others may think, we are deeply in love and that's all that matters to us.
As a writer, I often find myself sharing intimate details of my life with strangers. So when I was asked to participate in "How I Do It," a series where I give readers a sneak peek into my sex life, I was a bit hesitant. But then I thought, why not? Maybe sharing our story will help others in similar relationships feel less alone.
Let me introduce you to Will*, my partner who is 23 years older than me. We first met when we were working together at a bar. I was immediately drawn to him and we began flirting after work one night. I took a chance and asked him out for drinks the next night, which ultimately led to us sleeping together. For him, it was just a casual physical relationship at first, as he had recently ended a long-term relationship. But for me, I fell for him quickly and we were on and off for a few years before officially getting together in 2014. I finally moved in with him in 2019 and I couldn't be happier.
Our sex life is pretty average, with us having sex twice a week on average. However, I do wish it could be more passionate at times. We both find each other very attractive, but I think we sometimes take each other for granted. It's something we both acknowledge and are actively working on.
Unfortunately, our relationship has not been free from judgment. People tend to focus on our age difference, and it has caused some issues for us in the past. I have had relationships with older men before, and he has had relationships with younger women, but it's always me who receives the criticism. It's frustrating, to say the least.
My family has been accepting of our relationship from the start, despite the fact that Will is the same age as my parents. However, his friends and colleagues were initially more concerned. Thankfully, as we've been together for so long now, those concerns have faded and we are able to live our lives without constantly worrying about what others think.
Now, let's get to the juicy part - how our sex life is really like. Here's a peek into our week together.
Monday started off with Will leaving for a business trip. I hate when he's away, even if it's just for a few days. It's lonely coming home to an empty house and not having anyone to share dinner with or talk about our day. Although, it's not like we always have sex when he's here. Sometimes, we're just too tired or not in the mood. But, of course, as soon as he leaves, I'm hit with a wave of horniness. I try to take care of myself, but it's not the same as being with him.
Tuesday was a pretty typical day for me. I woke up alone, worked from my desk all day, and then went out to dinner with a friend. He told me about how he and his girlfriend have started sharing videos of themselves having sex online. It's not something I'm comfortable with, but I admire their boldness. They both have a mutual love for exhibitionism, but I prefer the thrill of getting caught rather than being watched intentionally.
Wednesday was a bit of a change of pace for us. Will was home and we decided to take a midweek trip to a cozy cottage with a nearby restaurant for dinner. It was exciting to do something spontaneous like this on a weekday. The drive over was nice, and I even thought about giving him road-head, but I didn't want to risk getting into an accident. That would not be a great story to tell our grandkids. We had some time to kill before dinner, so we started a fire in the wood-stove and got cozy on the bed. Hotel sex is always a treat, especially when you've paid for the room. Will seemed to be particularly turned on by the whole experience. I even brought a small vibrator with me, which he watched me use for a bit before we got into a 69 position. It was a night filled with slow and passionate lovemaking, with plenty of breaks in between.
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