March 29th 2024.
I have to say, I'm pretty content with the way my life is going. It's been an interesting journey, and recently I've discovered something about myself that I never really knew before. My name is Claire, and I'm a 33-year-old digital marketer living between Greenwich, London and Cape Town, South Africa. I've been happily married to my husband for six years now, and our relationship has been solid. But during the lockdown, something shifted inside me and I realized that I am bisexual.
Growing up, I always thought my attraction to women was just a phase or maybe even just a sense of admiration. It wasn't until the pandemic when I came across a TikTok video discussing bisexuality that I started to question my own feelings. The video explained that being bisexual doesn't necessarily mean being equally attracted to both men and women. It can fluctuate, and for me, it's more of a 30/70 split. I couldn't ignore the fact that I was really into women.
I opened up to my husband about this realization last year and he was very supportive. However, he wasn't too keen on the idea of me acting on it. But after a few months, he surprised me by saying that he would be interested in me exploring my attraction to women outside of our marriage. When I asked if he wanted to be involved, he said that for now, he just finds the idea of it hot. I'm not actively looking for anyone to date, but my husband and I do experiment with other things, like edibles.
Our sex life is fun, healthy, and a great way for us to release stress. And let me tell you, things get even more exciting when we get high together. I always joke that I want our sex life to be this good when we're old and wrinkly. Without further ado, here's how my week went in terms of sex...
Monday:
My husband and I have been working remotely during the pandemic, and we've found that having a quickie during the workday is the perfect stress reliever. It only takes about 20 minutes, which is the same amount of time it would take us to make and enjoy a cup of tea. Plus, not only is it a bit of a workout, but it also helps alleviate tension and boosts our moods. Sometimes we even use it as an incentive to get work done. Today, we set a goal for how much work we need to get through in order to have our quickie. And let me tell you, I've never cleared my inbox faster than when I know I get to hop into bed between meetings.
We have an agreement that if one of us is feeling up for it, we'll pop into the other's workspace and suggest it. Sometimes I'll drop everything and run to him, and other times I'll ask for a little delay if I'm in the middle of a project. There are rare occasions when I'm just not in the mood, but that's not very often.
Today, I was in the middle of writing a client proposal when my husband came in with a different kind of proposal. He held up a vibrator and gave me a suggestive look. Needless to say, the client proposal had to wait. Half an hour later, I was back at my desk, a little out of breath and completely distracted. In hindsight, I probably should have finished that proposal first.
Tuesday:
I was feeling a little bored during a lull in work, so I decided to open up a hook-up app and browse through potential matches in my area. I noticed that a lot of couples were looking for a third person, but I'm more interested in being with a solo woman. It's not easy to find someone who is a good fit for me, considering my unique circumstances. But the thought of my husband trusting me so much and being turned on by me being with a woman is very attractive.
Thinking about it during the workday is definitely distracting, but my husband is out of town today so it's just me and my toys. I spend some time doing some gardening, tending to our herbs and vegetables. In the evening, I binge-watch The Bear.
Wednesday:
The more sex my husband and I have, the more I want. There have been times in the past where we went through dry spells and it was hard to get back into the groove of things. But now that we have sex regularly, I find that I can't go more than a few days without it. Except on days like today when I'm feeling overwhelmed with work. Sex is usually a great distraction from stress, but today it's the last thing on my mind.
Luckily, my husband understands and doesn't make any sexual advances. Instead, he offers to give me a foot rub and makes me as many cups of tea as I need. He even suggests getting curry from our favorite spot for dinner as a pick-me-up. I feel grateful to have such a caring and understanding partner, and I know that he's the one I'll grow old with.
I absolutely love my life the way it is. I am a 33-year-old digital marketer, living between Greenwich, London and Cape Town, South Africa. I am happily married to my husband of six years and we have a pretty exciting sex life. Speaking of which, welcome to "How I Do It," the series where we give you a glimpse into the sex lives of strangers for an entire week. This week, we have Claire* sharing her story with us.
Claire has always thought of herself as straight, until she discovered her bisexuality during the lockdown. She had always brushed off her attraction towards women as mere envy, but it wasn't until she came across a TikTok video that she realized her feelings were real. The pandemic gave her the time and space to explore and she discovered that she is attracted to women in a big way.
She shared her realization with her husband in 2020 and he was very supportive, but initially not comfortable with the idea of her acting on her newfound sexuality. However, after a few months, he expressed interest in her exploring outside of their marriage with other women. When asked if he wanted to be involved, he said he might consider it in the future, but for now, just the thought of it is enough to turn him on.
Although Claire hasn't dated anyone or experimented with a woman yet, she and her husband do have a fulfilling sex life together. They also like to experiment with edibles, which makes their sex life even more adventurous and steamy. Claire hopes to have a sex life as amazing as this even in her old age.
Now, without further delay, let's dive into Claire's sex diary for this week. Fair warning, it's not suitable for work.
Monday was just like any other workday, except for the fact that Claire and her husband work remotely due to COVID. They have found that a quickie during their work breaks is the best stress reliever. It only takes 20 minutes, which is the same amount of time it would take to make and enjoy a cup of tea. It's also a great form of exercise and releases tension, making them both in a better mood for the rest of their workday. They even set a target for themselves, and once they achieve it, they reward themselves with a quickie. Claire jokes that she can clear her inbox in record time when she knows a quickie is on the line.
They have an understanding that if one of them feels up for it, they can pop into the other's workspace and suggest a quickie. Sometimes, Claire will drop everything and run to her husband, and other times, she'll ask for an hour's delay because she's in the middle of a project. It's rare for her to turn down her husband's advances, but it does happen occasionally. On Monday, while Claire was working on a client proposal, her husband came in with a vibrator and suggested they have a quickie. Needless to say, the client proposal had to wait.
On Tuesday, during a lull in work, Claire gets a bit bored and decides to open a hook-up app she uses. She browses through the profiles of people in her area, and although she comes across a lot of couples looking for a third, she prefers being with a solo woman. It's challenging to find someone who is the right fit for her unique circumstances, but she finds it attractive that her husband trusts her enough to explore her sexuality. She admits that thinking about it during the workday can be distracting, but since her husband is out of town, she has to make do with her toys.
After some gardening and binge-watching "The Bear," Wednesday rolls around. Claire has noticed that the more sex they have, the more she craves it. In the past, when there were dry spells in their sex life, it was challenging to get back into it. But now, they have sex regularly and she finds it hard to go a few days without it, except for days like today when she's feeling overwhelmed with work. Her husband is understanding and doesn't make any sexual advances. Instead, he offers her a foot rub and makes her as many cups of tea as she wants. He even suggests getting her favorite curry for dinner to cheer her up. She feels grateful to have such a caring and loving partner to grow old with.
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