June 22nd 2024.
LX Xander, once known as the 'modern-day Hugh Hefner,' used to have a lifestyle that many envied. He had seven girlfriends, one for each day of the week, and indulged in wild and exotic experiences with them. However, he recently made a surprising decision – to go celibate.
In an interview with NeedToKnow, the 34-year-old music producer from Yorkshire opened up about his reasons for making such a drastic change. He admitted feeling trapped, guilty, and confused in his monogamous relationships, and realized that he had become desensitized to sex due to his many experiences. LX explained that he needed to reset the dopamine receptors in his brain that were associated with sex, as he was no longer enjoying it as much as he used to. In fact, sometimes he would feel more anxious than excited about the idea of it.
His decision to go celibate has caused frustration among some of his girlfriends, who have expressed their disappointment. LX shared that some of them have claimed to be supportive but have not respected his boundaries and have been pushy. He has now learned to keep those people at a distance.
LX now lives in Los Angeles, and his celibacy journey has been a month-long so far. He hopes to continue for as long as it is needed. He described his brain as being "way quieter" since quitting sex, and he is learning a lot about himself.
One of the things LX has realized is that he is not as horny as he thought he was. He believes that people usually desire validation, intimacy, and to feel desired, rather than just wanting to have sex. He also understands that if any of his girlfriends or anyone else ends their relationship with him because of his decision, then their connection was purely sexual.
For LX, going celibate was a way to see what his life would be like without sex in it. He wants to get back to feeling the magic and innocence he had when he was younger. He believes that this is what he needs to find his own peace and happiness. If you have a story to share about your own experiences with celibacy or relationships, you can get in touch by emailing [email]. And if you love reading juicy stories and need some tips for spicing things up in the bedroom, sign up for The Hook-Up, Metro's sex and dating newsletter, to receive all the latest stories every week. We can't wait to have you join us!
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